{"id":15788,"date":"2021-10-29T22:45:46","date_gmt":"2021-10-29T19:45:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dizilerfragmanlar.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n.jpg"},"modified":"2021-10-29T22:48:13","modified_gmt":"2021-10-29T19:48:13","slug":"250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n","status":"inherit","type":"attachment","link":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/genel\/ornek\/attachment\/250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n\/","title":{"rendered":""},"author":2,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"description":{"rendered":"<p class=\"attachment\"><a href='https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n.jpg'><img width=\"300\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n-300x300.jpg\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n.jpg 843w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n"},"caption":{"rendered":"<p>SONUNDA DAYANAMADIM EVL\u0130YKEN ONUN YANINA G\u0130TT\u0130M\u2026<br \/>\nEski a\u015fk\u0131m kafam\u0131 kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131. Evlilikte \u00f6rnek olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00f6zel bir konu l\u00fctfen okuduktan sonra payla\u015f\u0131n, ba\u015fka aileleri kurtarmaya vesile olun. ben 3 y\u0131ll\u0131k evli bir gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n\u0131m. E\u015fime \u00e2\u015f\u0131k olarak de\u011fil de sevgi ve sayg\u0131 duydu\u011fum i\u00e7in evlendim. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc zaten unutamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir a\u015fk\u0131m vard\u0131. G\u00f6rsele tklayarak okumaya devam edin..<\/p>\n<p>Onunla olmayacak sebeplerden dolay\u0131 ili\u015fkimizi bitirdik. Bitti ama g\u00f6nl\u00fcmde yeri kald\u0131. Geri d\u00f6nmek istedi\u011finde ben zaten s\u00f6zlenmek \u00fczereydim, yani \u00e7ok ge\u00e7 kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Beni deli gibi seven s\u00f6zl\u00fcmden ayr\u0131lmak istemedim, sonra pi\u015fman olmaktan ve haks\u0131zl\u0131k yapmaktan korktum. Onunla olmayacak sebeplerden dolay\u0131 ili\u015fkimizi bitirdik. Bitti ama g\u00f6nl\u00fcmde yeri kald\u0131. Geri d\u00f6nmek istedi\u011finde ben zaten s\u00f6zlenmek \u00fczereydim, yani \u00e7ok ge\u00e7 kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Beni deli gibi seven s\u00f6zl\u00fcmden ayr\u0131lmak istemedim, sonra pi\u015fman olmaktan ve haks\u0131zl\u0131k yapmaktan korktum.<\/p>\n<p>Eski sevgilimin evlili\u011fim s\u00fcresince arkamdan hep g\u00fczel \u015feyler s\u00f6yledi\u011fini duydum. Bu beni hem mutlu etti hem de \u00fczd\u00fc. \u00dc\u00e7 ay \u00f6nce dayanamad\u0131m, art\u0131k benimle ilgili konu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 istemedi\u011fimi s\u00f6ylemek i\u00e7in yan\u0131na gittim. \u00c7ok k\u0131sa da olsa konu\u015ftuk. Tam yedi sene sonra ilk defa g\u00f6zlerine bakt\u0131m, i\u015fte o g\u00fcnden sonra da akl\u0131mdan \u00e7\u0131kmaz oldu. E\u015fimle aram \u00e7ok iyi ama ben o g\u00fcnden beri gizli gizli a\u011fl\u0131yor, ge\u00e7mi\u015fi hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum. K\u00f6t\u00fc bir evlili\u011fim yok ama \u00e7ok zor \u015feyler ya\u015fad\u0131m, bu y\u00fczden ke\u015fke evlenmeseydim diyorum.<br \/>\n\u015eimdi onu akl\u0131mdan nas\u0131l \u00e7\u0131karaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 bilmiyorum. Her g\u00fcn eski foto\u011fraflar\u0131na bak\u0131yorum, sonra e\u015fimin y\u00fcz\u00fcne bakmak zor geliyor. Evlenece\u011finiz ki\u015fi kaderinizde var diyorlar, ona bile inanmak istemiyorum. Bu kendi hatam bana kal\u0131rsa\u2026 Bana yard\u0131mc\u0131 olman\u0131z\u0131 bekliyorum. Hatta okurlar\u0131n\u0131zdan da yorum istiyorum. Sevgili k\u0131z\u0131m, ilk a\u015fk\u0131ndan ayr\u0131lma nedenin neydi bilmiyorum ama kendin sa\u00e7ma sapan nedenler dedi\u011fin i\u00e7in sana acele etmi\u015fsin, yanl\u0131\u015f yapm\u0131\u015fs\u0131n demek geliyor i\u00e7imden\u2026 \u00d6te yandan bu saatten sonra bunu s\u00f6ylemenin de faydas\u0131 yok art\u0131k. Evlenmeden \u00f6nce birka\u00e7 y\u0131l beklemi\u015fsin san\u0131r\u0131m. Bu arada onun da harekete ge\u00e7mesi gerekmez miydi? Yani bug\u00fcnk\u00fc mutsuzlu\u011funuzda onun da rol\u00fc var. Art\u0131k evlisin, e\u015fin sana kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7ok iyi ise, bunca y\u0131l sonra ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p akl\u0131n\u0131 kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmakla hi\u00e7 iyi bir \u015fey yapmam\u0131\u015f. \u00c7ocu\u011fun var m\u0131 bilmiyorum, yazmam\u0131\u015fs\u0131n. Olmasa bile oturmu\u015f bir evlili\u011fin var\u2026 Onunlaysa ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n a\u015fk\u0131n hat\u0131ras\u0131 d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda hi\u00e7bir \u015fey\u2026 Evlensen, nas\u0131l bir evlilik ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131n belli de\u011fil. Kadere inanmak gerekiyor, belli ki e\u015fin senin kaderinde varm\u0131\u015f. Sana Bitir evlili\u011fini, unutamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n a\u015fk\u0131na ko\u015f da diyebilirim. Ama bunun bir macera olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 gayet iyi biliyorum. En b\u00fcy\u00fck a\u015fklar bile evlilik kurumu i\u00e7inde (istisnalar var tabii) eriyip gidiyor, geride sevgi ve sayg\u0131 kal\u0131yor. K\u0131sacas\u0131 sen \u015fimdi yeniden alevlenen o eski a\u015fk heyecan\u0131nla durumu iyi yorumlayam\u0131yorsun. Geri d\u00f6nsen, eski g\u00fcnlerdeki gibi mi olur san\u0131yorsun? A\u015fk\u0131n\u0131z, eski ate\u015fini korur mu san\u0131yorsun? Bence pi\u015fman olaca\u011f\u0131n bir \u015feyler yapmamal\u0131s\u0131n. Onu gidip g\u00f6rmen bile yanl\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f. Zaten bahane aram\u0131\u015fs\u0131n g\u00f6rmek i\u00e7in. Hi\u00e7 de iyi olmam\u0131\u015f\u2026<\/p>\n"},"alt_text":"","media_type":"image","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","media_details":{"width":843,"height":843,"file":"2021\/10\/250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n.jpg","sizes":{"medium":{"file":"250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n-300x300.jpg","width":300,"height":300,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n-300x300.jpg"},"thumbnail":{"file":"250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n-150x150.jpg","width":150,"height":150,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n-150x150.jpg"},"medium_large":{"file":"250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n-768x768.jpg","width":768,"height":768,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n-768x768.jpg"},"kucukResim":{"file":"250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n-80x50.jpg","width":80,"height":50,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n-80x50.jpg"},"sliderResim":{"file":"250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n-670x330.jpg","width":670,"height":330,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n-670x330.jpg"},"resim1":{"file":"250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n-184x140.jpg","width":184,"height":140,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n-184x140.jpg"},"resim2":{"file":"250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n-216x103.jpg","width":216,"height":103,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n-216x103.jpg"},"resim3":{"file":"250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n-145x70.jpg","width":145,"height":70,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n-145x70.jpg"},"sagSlider":{"file":"250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n-300x150.jpg","width":300,"height":150,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n-300x150.jpg"},"yeniSlider":{"file":"250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n-500x290.jpg","width":500,"height":290,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n-500x290.jpg"},"full":{"file":"250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n.jpg","width":843,"height":843,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n.jpg"}},"image_meta":{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"0","keywords":[]}},"post":15786,"source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/250701196_4494461030639280_7410208721393382152_n.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15788"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/attachment"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15788"}]}}