{"id":19310,"date":"2023-02-20T23:56:47","date_gmt":"2023-02-20T20:56:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/118sirket.gen.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n.jpg"},"modified":"2023-02-20T23:57:47","modified_gmt":"2023-02-20T20:57:47","slug":"332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n","status":"inherit","type":"attachment","link":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/genel\/hic-farkli-gorunmuyordu\/attachment\/332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n\/","title":{"rendered":"Hi\u00e7 farkl\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u00fcyordu"},"author":2,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"description":{"rendered":"<p class=\"attachment\"><a href='https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n.jpg'><img width=\"257\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n-257x300.jpg\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n-257x300.jpg 257w, https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n.jpg 514w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 257px) 100vw, 257px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n"},"caption":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 s\u00f6z konusu oldu\u011funda anneleri \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131\u011fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrecek bir \u015fey her zaman bulunur. Bu anne i\u00e7in de durum farkl\u0131 de\u011fildi: k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n dans dersini hayranl\u0131kla izliyordu. Ancak \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n sebebinin k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131z\u0131yla hi\u00e7bir ilgisi yoktu. Odaya g\u00f6z gezdirdi\u011finde a\u011fz\u0131 \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131ktan bir kar\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131k kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Odada sesler, g\u00fcl\u00fc\u015fler ve dans eden \u00e7ocuklar vard\u0131. Ancak bu annenin y\u00fcz\u00fcnde di\u011ferleri gibi kocaman bir g\u00fcl\u00fcmseme yoktu. Ger\u00e7ekten a\u011fz\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k kalm\u0131\u015f ve g\u00f6zleri kocaman a\u00e7\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Bu nas\u0131l olabilir\u2026 Bu ger\u00e7ek olamaz!!\u00d6ng\u00f6r\u00fclemeyen durum Bir\u00e7ok kad\u0131n, \u00e7ocuk sahibi olman\u0131n d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en harika deneyimi oldu\u011fu konusunda hemfikirdir. Bu hikayedeki anne Gina da kesinlikle bu grubun i\u00e7inde. Mutlu bir anne olan Gina Crotts di\u011fer bir\u00e7ok anne gibi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 hayat\u0131n tad\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131rken g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde huzurla dolard\u0131. Ancak o g\u00fcn k\u0131z\u0131 Evie\u2019nin dans performans\u0131n\u0131 izlerken gen\u00e7 anne bir anda \u00e7ok tuhaf bir \u015fey fark etmi\u015fti. K\u0131z\u0131 odan\u0131n i\u00e7inde bir oraya bir buraya do\u011fru giderek dans edip s\u00fcrekli annesinin dikkatini \u00e7ekmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yordu. Fakat Gina\u2019n\u0131n dikkati ba\u015fka yerdeydi, bunun da iyi bir sebebi vard\u0131.. Gina\u2019n\u0131n y\u0131llard\u0131r g\u00f6rmedi\u011fi bir \u015fey Utah\u2019\u0131n Saratoga Springs b\u00f6lgesinde ya\u015fayan bir yazar olan Gina, duygular\u0131n\u0131 ka\u011f\u0131da d\u00f6kmeyi severdi. \u00dc\u00e7 \u00e7ocu\u011fuyla (iki erkek ve bir k\u0131z) gurur duyan bir anneydi o. Gina d\u00fcnyada \u00e7ok \u015fey g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc, ama eve gelip \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla vakit ge\u00e7irmek hayat\u0131ndaki en b\u00fcy\u00fck mutluluktu. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131 38 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki bu anne i\u00e7in d\u00fcnyaya bedeldi ve bunun i\u00e7in kendince sebepleri vard\u0131. \u00dczerine bir \u015feyin g\u00f6lgesi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyordu sanki ve bu onu ergenli\u011finden beri rahats\u0131z ediyordu. Bunu \u00fcst\u00fcnden nas\u0131l ataca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmiyordu, ya da istese de atam\u0131yordu. Dans okulundaki o ak\u015fam\u00fcst\u00fc d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda\u2026 Art\u0131k ge\u00e7mi\u015finden ka\u00e7amazd\u0131\u2026 Ge\u00e7mi\u015fin dokunu\u015fu Gina\u2019n\u0131n k\u0131z\u0131 annesine \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131kla bakt\u0131 ancak Gina bunu fark etmedi. T\u00fcm dikkatini odada bulunan ba\u015fka birine vermi\u015fti. Dikkatini \u00e7eken 18-19 ya\u015flar\u0131nda bir k\u0131zd\u0131 ama Gina bu gen\u00e7 k\u0131z\u0131n ona neden bu kadar tan\u0131d\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc a\u00e7\u0131klayam\u0131yordu. Dilinin ucundayd\u0131. Darmada\u011f\u0131n olmu\u015f anne g\u00f6zlerini kapad\u0131 ve ans\u0131z\u0131n ger\u00e7ek, y\u00fcz\u00fcne bir tokat gibi \u00e7arpt\u0131. Bir anda, uzun zamand\u0131r zihninin gerisine atm\u0131\u015f oldu\u011fu ge\u00e7mi\u015fe dair bir \u00e2n\u0131 hat\u0131rlad\u0131! Ge\u00e7mi\u015fteki ac\u0131lar su y\u00fcz\u00fcne \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor Brandon\u2019la evlendikten sonra Gina\u2019n\u0131n hayat\u0131 bamba\u015fka olmu\u015ftu. Onu \u00e7ok seven bir kocas\u0131 ve \u00fc\u00e7 g\u00fczel \u00e7ocu\u011fu vard\u0131. Hayat olabilecek en iyi \u015fekilde ak\u0131yordu ama yine de onun zihnini daima i\u015fgal eden bir \u015feyler vard\u0131. Ge\u00e7mi\u015ften ac\u0131 bir hat\u0131ra. Unutmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 ama her zaman Gina\u2019n\u0131n ruhunu kemiren bir hat\u0131ra. Gina bunu zihninden atmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f ve uzun bir s\u00fcre ba\u015farm\u0131\u015ft\u0131 da. Ancak dans okulundaki o g\u00fcn art\u0131k bu m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildi. Bu \u00e7ok ac\u0131 bir ger\u00e7ekti ve ger\u00e7e\u011fin bir ismi vard\u0131. Kalyn! Zor bir karar Bu isim, Gina\u2019n\u0131n 18 sene \u00f6nce vermek zorunda oldu\u011fu mecburi bir kararla ba\u011flant\u0131l\u0131yd\u0131. Elinden bir \u015feyin gelemedi\u011fi, ama \u015fimdi y\u0131llar sonra \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck sonu\u00e7lar do\u011furmu\u015f bir karard\u0131. Baz\u0131 kararlar sizi hayat\u0131n\u0131z boyunca takip eder. Onlar\u0131 bast\u0131rmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z ama ger\u00e7ek bir \u015fekilde ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar. \u0130\u015fte Gina\u2019ya da tam olarak bu olmu\u015ftu. \u201cBu k\u0131zla konu\u015fmal\u0131 m\u0131y\u0131m?\u201d diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc Gina. Bir an teredd\u00fct etmi\u015fti\u2026 Ama sonra yava\u015f yava\u015f k\u0131za do\u011fru yakla\u015ft\u0131\u2026 Ve bir bebek Yakla\u015f\u0131k 20 sene \u00f6nce Gina hayat\u0131n\u0131n en zor karar\u0131n\u0131 almak zorunda kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. O zamanlar d\u00fczenli bir evi yoktu. Gen\u00e7ti, tecr\u00fcbesizdi ve alaca\u011f\u0131 haber i\u00e7in kesinlikle haz\u0131rl\u0131ks\u0131zd\u0131. Markete gidip hamilelik testi alm\u0131\u015f ve korkular\u0131 ger\u00e7e\u011fe d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc. Testin sonucu pozitifti. Bununla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kabilir miyim? B\u00fcy\u00fctmek bir yana bir \u00e7ocu\u011fu do\u011furacak kadar olgun muyum? Gina\u2019n\u0131n kafas\u0131ndan \u00e7ok say\u0131da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ge\u00e7mi\u015fti, ancak bebe\u011fi do\u011furma karar\u0131 vermi\u015fti. Her \u015fey \u00e7ok h\u0131zl\u0131 ger\u00e7ekle\u015fti ve 9 ay sonra Kalyn do\u011fdu\u2026 \u015eimdi ne olacakt\u0131? KararBebe\u011fini yan\u0131nda tutma konusunda kararl\u0131 olsa da ba\u015fka birinin yan\u0131nda onun daha iyi \u015fartlara sahip olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biliyordu. Bu y\u00fczden hayat\u0131n\u0131n en zor karar\u0131n\u0131 verdi. Kalyn evlat verilecekti. K\u0131z\u0131 oyunlar oynayacak, b\u00fcy\u00fcyecek ve ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 bir gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n olacakt\u0131. Ancak do\u011fum ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmi\u015fti ve Gina veda zaman\u0131n\u0131n yakla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biliyordu. Hastaneye yolculuk hi\u00e7 bitmeyecek gibiydi. Gina\u2019ya g\u00f6re bu iyi bir \u015feydi \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bebe\u011fiyle m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011fu kadar fazla vakit ge\u00e7irmek istiyordu. Ancak araban\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131p hastane kap\u0131lar\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde\u2026 O korkun\u00e7 an sonunda gelmi\u015fti\u2026 Son kez kollar\u0131nda Kalyn biyolojik annesiyle duygusal son bir gece ge\u00e7irdi. B\u00fcy\u00fckanne ve b\u00fcy\u00fckbabas\u0131 da bu dakikalara tan\u0131k olmak i\u00e7in oradayd\u0131lar. Ertesi g\u00fcn yeni ailesi Kalyn\u2019i alacakt\u0131. Gina k\u0131z\u0131 i\u00e7in \u2018Benim G\u00fczel Kelebe\u011fim\u2019 isminde \u00e7ok g\u00fczel bir \u015fiir yazd\u0131 ve bu \u015fiiri Kalyn\u2019in yeni annesine verdi. Kalyn kendisini \u00fczg\u00fcn ve yaln\u0131z hissetti\u011finde bu \u015fiiri ona okumalar\u0131n\u0131 istedi. B\u00f6ylelikle Kalyn ona her zaman birinin g\u00f6z kulak oldu\u011funu bilecekti.Gina g\u00f6zlerinde ya\u015flarla i\u00e7inde k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n bulundu\u011fu araban\u0131n gidi\u015fini izledi. Neyse ki sonras\u0131nda sevgili kocas\u0131 Brandon\u2019la tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131 ve yeniden anneli\u011fi tatma \u015fans\u0131n\u0131 yakalad\u0131. Ancak Kalyn\u2019i bir daha hi\u00e7 g\u00f6remeyece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyordu. Ta ki o ana kadar\u2026 Ge\u00e7mi\u015f bug\u00fcnle birle\u015fiyor G\u00f6zlerine inanam\u0131yordu. Ancak gen\u00e7 kad\u0131n onun Kalyn\u2019i oldu\u011fundan %100 emindi. Ne kadar ayr\u0131 kal\u0131rlarsa kals\u0131nlar bir anne \u00e7ocu\u011funun g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc asla unutmaz. B\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f ve g\u00fczel bir k\u0131z olmu\u015ftu. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131z\u0131 annesinin elini tuttu. K\u0131z muhtemelen odadakilerin en zekisiydi \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc tek bir s\u00f6z s\u00f6ylemeye gerek kalmadan neler olup bitti\u011fini anlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Gina Kalyn\u2019den hi\u00e7 bahsetmemi\u015fti ama g\u00f6r\u00fcnen o ki k\u0131z\u0131 annesinin deste\u011fe ihtiyac\u0131 oldu\u011funu hissetmi\u015fti. Anne k\u0131z birlikte gen\u00e7 k\u0131za do\u011fru yakla\u015ft\u0131lar.. Gina, onlar\u0131n b\u00f6yle aniden yakla\u015fmalar\u0131ndan Kalyn\u2019in korkmamas\u0131n\u0131 diledi. Elleri titreyerek bu \u0131\u015f\u0131k sa\u00e7an gen\u00e7 k\u0131za do\u011fru ilerledi. Neyse ki, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131z\u0131 elini s\u0131ms\u0131k\u0131 tutmas\u0131na ses \u00e7\u0131karmad\u0131, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc aksi takdirde karar\u0131ndan cay\u0131p ka\u00e7abilirdi. Kalyn ile tiz bir sesle konu\u015ftu. Bu kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmada belirsizlik ve \u015f\u00fcphe h\u00e2kimdi. Kalyn arkas\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6nd\u00fc, Gina\u2019ya bakt\u0131 ve kimsenin ummad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u015fekilde tepki g\u00f6sterdi.. Kalyn ona yakla\u015fan kad\u0131na bakt\u0131, onu tan\u0131m\u0131\u015f gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyordu. Ya\u015faran g\u00f6zleri kocaman a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131. Gina\u2019y\u0131 hemen tan\u0131m\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u201cAnne?\u201d Duygulara bo\u011fulan Gina uzun zamand\u0131r kay\u0131p olan k\u0131z\u0131na s\u0131ms\u0131k\u0131 sar\u0131ld\u0131. Devam\u0131 tahmin etti\u011finiz gibi. Kalyn ve Gina aradan ge\u00e7en zaman\u0131 telafi etmek i\u00e7in ertesi g\u00fcn bulu\u015ftular. Bu ya\u015fananlar y\u0131llar \u00f6nceydi. Peki bug\u00fcn anne k\u0131z ne yap\u0131yorlar dersiniz? O g\u00fcnden sonra art\u0131k ayr\u0131lmaz bir ikili oldular. Her \u015feyi birlikte yap\u0131yorlar, Kalyn Gina\u2019n\u0131n hayat\u0131nda di\u011fer \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 kadar \u00f6neme sahip. Gina k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n her dans dersine gidiyor ve yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 her \u015feyde g\u00fczeller g\u00fczeli gen\u00e7 k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 destekliyor. Bunca y\u0131l\u0131 ayr\u0131 ge\u00e7irmi\u015f olmalar\u0131na ra\u011fmen bu iki kad\u0131n\u0131n art\u0131k ayr\u0131lmaz bir ikili olmas\u0131 ne kadar g\u00fczel, de\u011fil mi? Foto\u011fraflara bakarak bu anne ve k\u0131z\u0131n birbirlerini yaln\u0131zca k\u0131sa bir s\u00fcredir tan\u0131yor olduklar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek \u00e7ok zor. \u0130kisi i\u00e7in de g\u00fczel ve sevgi dolu bir gelece\u011fin temelleri at\u0131ld\u0131. \u00c7ok ya\u015fay\u0131n Gina ve Kalyn!<\/p>\n"},"alt_text":"","media_type":"image","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","media_details":{"width":514,"height":600,"file":"2023\/02\/332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n.jpg","sizes":{"medium":{"file":"332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n-257x300.jpg","width":257,"height":300,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n-257x300.jpg"},"thumbnail":{"file":"332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n-150x150.jpg","width":150,"height":150,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n-150x150.jpg"},"kucukResim":{"file":"332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n-80x50.jpg","width":80,"height":50,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n-80x50.jpg"},"sliderResim":{"file":"332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n-514x330.jpg","width":514,"height":330,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n-514x330.jpg"},"resim1":{"file":"332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n-184x140.jpg","width":184,"height":140,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n-184x140.jpg"},"resim2":{"file":"332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n-216x103.jpg","width":216,"height":103,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n-216x103.jpg"},"resim3":{"file":"332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n-145x70.jpg","width":145,"height":70,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n-145x70.jpg"},"sagSlider":{"file":"332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n-300x150.jpg","width":300,"height":150,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n-300x150.jpg"},"yeniSlider":{"file":"332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n-500x290.jpg","width":500,"height":290,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n-500x290.jpg"},"full":{"file":"332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n.jpg","width":514,"height":600,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n.jpg"}},"image_meta":{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"0","keywords":[]}},"post":19308,"source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/332141040_724725435657151_1949016322895716535_n.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19310"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/attachment"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19310"}]}}