{"id":25210,"date":"2024-04-10T02:08:44","date_gmt":"2024-04-09T23:08:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/118sirket.gen.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1-2.jpg"},"modified":"2024-04-10T02:09:06","modified_gmt":"2024-04-09T23:09:06","slug":"1-496","status":"inherit","type":"attachment","link":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/genel\/evlilik-hayatimizi-karartiyor\/attachment\/1-496\/","title":{"rendered":"Evlilik hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 karart\u0131yor"},"author":2,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"description":{"rendered":"<p class=\"attachment\"><a href='https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1-2.jpg'><img width=\"300\" height=\"169\" src=\"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1-2-300x169.jpg\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1-2-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1-2-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1-2-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1-2.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n"},"caption":{"rendered":"<p>1-Bo\u015famak i\u00e7in kullan\u0131lan kelimeleri erke\u011fin han\u0131m\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 s\u00f6ylemesi ile talak yani bo\u015fama has\u0131l olur. Bo\u015famak i\u00e7in kullan\u0131lan s\u00f6zler iki \u00e7e\u015fittir: A\u00e7\u0131k s\u00f6zler ve Kinayeli s\u00f6zler. \u201cSen benden bo\u015f ol\u201d, \u201cBen seni bo\u015fad\u0131m\u201d gibi s\u00f6zler a\u00e7\u0131k s\u00f6zd\u00fcr. Bu s\u00f6zleri, \u015faka olarak veya \u015fa\u015f\u0131rarak da s\u00f6yledi\u011fi anda, manas\u0131n\u0131 bilmese bile, bo\u015fam\u0131\u015f olur. \u201cSeni b\u0131rakt\u0131m, seni terk ettim\u201d kelimeleri a\u00e7\u0131k s\u00f6z kabul edilir. Bir veya iki defa b\u00f6yle a\u00e7\u0131k s\u00f6zle bo\u015famaya, yani geri d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fc m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olan bo\u015famaya talak-\u0131 rici denir. Ama yine de \u00fc\u00e7 haktan biri gitmi\u015f olur. Bu s\u00f6zlerden herhangi biri bir defa s\u00f6ylendi\u011finde, pi\u015fman olunmu\u015fsa, eski nikaha d\u00f6nmek niyetiyle han\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n elini tutar veya \u00f6perse, tekrar nikah yapmadan iki ba\u011f ile evlili\u011fe devam eder. 2- Evlilikte \u00fc\u00e7 ba\u011f vard\u0131r. Yani, bo\u015fama s\u00f6zleri \u00fc\u00e7 defa tekrarlan\u0131rsa, \u201cSeni bo\u015fad\u0131m, bo\u015fad\u0131m, bo\u015fad\u0131m\u201d derse, veya \u201cSeni \u00fc\u00e7 defa bo\u015fad\u0131m\u201d derse \u00fc\u00e7 ba\u011f\u0131 birden koparm\u0131\u015f, geri d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fc olmayacak \u015fekilde bo\u015fam\u0131\u015f olur. B\u00f6yle \u00fc\u00e7 kere bo\u015fay\u0131nca talak-\u0131 rici, talak-\u0131 baine d\u00f6nm\u00fc\u015f olur. 3- \u201cBaban\u0131n evine git!\u201d, \u201cDefol git!\u201d, \u201cCehenneme git!\u201d, \u201cSenin kocan de\u011filim art\u0131k\u201d gibi, ba\u015fka manalarda da kullan\u0131lan s\u00f6zler kinayeli, kapal\u0131 s\u00f6zlerdir. Bu s\u00f6zler, bo\u015famak niyeti ile s\u00f6yleyince bo\u015fam\u0131\u015f olur. Buna bain talak, yani iddet m\u00fcddeti i\u00e7inde geri d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fc olmayan kesin bo\u015fama denir. Bu \u015fekilde bo\u015famada, iddet m\u00fcddeti ge\u00e7ip yeniden nikah yap\u0131lmad\u0131k\u00e7a bir araya gelinemez. 4- Kay\u0131npederine \u201cBen senin k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 istemem, kime ister ise vars\u0131n\u201d demek ve han\u0131m\u0131 gezmek i\u00e7in izin istedi\u011finde, \u201cBen seni ip ile ba\u011flamad\u0131m git\u201d, \u201c\u0130stedi\u011fin yere gidersin. Bana han\u0131m olmazs\u0131n\u201d veya \u201cArt\u0131k ben seni istemem\u201d, \u201cSeni bo\u015famak istiyorum\u201d gibi \u015feyler s\u00f6ylese, bo\u015famak niyet etmedik\u00e7e, bo\u015fam\u0131\u015f olmaz. Ama bo\u015fama niyetiyle s\u00f6ylerse bo\u015fanma ger\u00e7ekle\u015fir. 5- Han\u0131m\u0131na, anam, k\u0131z\u0131m, karde\u015fim demekle bo\u015fama olmaz. Fakat (\u015eimdiden sonra anam, k\u0131z\u0131m veya karde\u015fim ol) derse bo\u015fama olur. Bu bir talak-\u0131 bain olur. 6-Han\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015fka ba\u015fka \u00fc\u00e7 zamanda birer kere bo\u015farsa, \u00fc\u00e7 defa (Bo\u015f ol) veya (Bo\u015fad\u0131m) derse yahut bir defa (\u00dc\u00e7 kere bo\u015fad\u0131m) derse, geri d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fc olmayacak \u015fekilde nik\u00e2h bozulmu\u015f olur. 7-Farz\u0131 yapmayan mesela namaz\u0131n farz oldu\u011funa inand\u0131\u011f\u0131 halde k\u0131lmayan kad\u0131n\u0131 bo\u015famamak g\u00fcnah de\u011fildir. Kocas\u0131n\u0131n ona g\u00fczellikle namaz k\u0131ld\u0131rmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 gerekir, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmazsa g\u00fcnaha girer. Evlilik vazifesini yapamayan, mesela b\u00fcy\u00fc yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, ili\u015fkiden aciz olan erke\u011fin han\u0131m\u0131 ayr\u0131lmak isterse, bunu bo\u015famas\u0131 vacip olur..<\/p>\n"},"alt_text":"","media_type":"image","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","media_details":{"width":1200,"height":675,"file":"2024\/04\/1-2.jpg","sizes":{"medium":{"file":"1-2-300x169.jpg","width":300,"height":169,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1-2-300x169.jpg"},"large":{"file":"1-2-1024x576.jpg","width":1024,"height":576,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1-2-1024x576.jpg"},"thumbnail":{"file":"1-2-150x150.jpg","width":150,"height":150,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1-2-150x150.jpg"},"medium_large":{"file":"1-2-768x432.jpg","width":768,"height":432,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1-2-768x432.jpg"},"kucukResim":{"file":"1-2-80x50.jpg","width":80,"height":50,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1-2-80x50.jpg"},"sliderResim":{"file":"1-2-670x330.jpg","width":670,"height":330,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1-2-670x330.jpg"},"resim1":{"file":"1-2-184x140.jpg","width":184,"height":140,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1-2-184x140.jpg"},"resim2":{"file":"1-2-216x103.jpg","width":216,"height":103,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1-2-216x103.jpg"},"resim3":{"file":"1-2-145x70.jpg","width":145,"height":70,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1-2-145x70.jpg"},"sagSlider":{"file":"1-2-300x150.jpg","width":300,"height":150,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1-2-300x150.jpg"},"yeniSlider":{"file":"1-2-500x290.jpg","width":500,"height":290,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1-2-500x290.jpg"},"full":{"file":"1-2.jpg","width":1200,"height":675,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1-2.jpg"}},"image_meta":{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"0","keywords":[]}},"post":25208,"source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/1-2.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/25210"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/attachment"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25210"}]}}