{"id":31947,"date":"2025-01-19T23:58:02","date_gmt":"2025-01-19T20:58:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kilosorunum.com\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1-203.jpg"},"modified":"2025-01-19T23:58:38","modified_gmt":"2025-01-19T20:58:38","slug":"1-1818","status":"inherit","type":"attachment","link":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/genel\/2-aylik-evliyim-ve-esim-askerde\/attachment\/1-1818\/","title":{"rendered":"2 ayl\u0131k evliyim ve e\u015fim askerde"},"author":2,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"description":{"rendered":"<p class=\"attachment\"><a href='https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1-203.jpg'><img width=\"300\" height=\"169\" src=\"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1-203-300x169.jpg\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1-203-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1-203-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1-203-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1-203.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n"},"caption":{"rendered":"<p>Ard\u0131ndan e\u015fim izin vermedi ve annesi ni\u015fan\u0131mda bile k\u0131yafetimde kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u0130steme g\u00fcn\u00fcnde mutfaga gelip kahveye tuz ekledim ve oglu\u015fum hasta olur gibi sacma sapan konustu. Sustum ve e\u015fim yine izin vermedi ve yerine oturttu. Ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz ramazan bayram\u0131nda annemle evlerine gittik. B\u00fcy\u00fcklerimiz gelmesi gerekirken, annem kap\u0131dan girer girmez bana seninle konu\u015fmuyormu\u015fum, k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131n elini niye \u00f6pmedin gibi sacma sapan \u015feyler s\u00f6yledi. K\u0131z\u0131nda bizim y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fcze bakmayan. Bundan sonra dedim ki, buraya yazmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m ve yazamayaca\u011f\u0131m \u00e7ok daha fazla \u015fey var, ancak bunlar en basitleri. En son gelin alma g\u00fcn\u00fc, ailemden hi\u00e7 biri gelmedi. E\u015fim tek bas\u0131na bunu s\u00f6yledi ve kendi akrabalar\u0131m\u0131n hi\u00e7birini g\u00f6rmedim. Ayr\u0131ca, babam, annem, abilerim ve ablalar\u0131m da gelmedi. Annemin sekeri \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131 ve onu sakinle\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in \u00e7ok \u00e7aba sarf ettik. D\u00fcn yine sustuk, ancak bundan sonra hi\u00e7bir \u015fekilde ne ar\u0131yorum ne soruyorum. Hakl\u0131 oldu\u011fumu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum e\u015fimde hak sa\u011fl\u0131yor ama baz\u0131 durumlarda fark ediyorum ki g\u00f6r\u00fcsmemi istiyor \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc biliyor ve bu nedenle her zaman aram\u0131zda sorunlar \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. \u0130yi biliyor, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc onlar\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fcnden her zaman sorunlar \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. E\u015fimle hi\u00e7bir sorunumuz yok ama ailesinin sorunlar\u0131 oldu\u011funda birbirimize giriyoruz. Bu konuda mutsuzum \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ailemden evlat g\u00f6rmek istedim ve hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yapmadan bana neler yapt\u0131lar. Birka\u00e7 durumda, babam yok diye bana b\u00f6yle davran\u0131yorlar. Yine de kendimi ezdirmiyorum. Bunu payla\u015fmak istedim. Okudu\u011funuz i\u00e7in minnettar\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSessiz \u00c7\u0131\u011fl\u0131k\u201d YEN\u0130 H\u0130KAYE<\/p>\n<p>B\u00f6l\u00fcm 1: G\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131 Sessizdir<br \/>\nElif, otuzlu ya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n ortas\u0131nda, gen\u00e7li\u011finde hayalini kurdu\u011fu hayat\u0131 \u00e7oktan geride b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015f bir kad\u0131nd\u0131. \u00dcniversite y\u0131llar\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fck umutlarla evlendi\u011fi Selim, ilk y\u0131llarda onun i\u00e7in bir masal kahraman\u0131yd\u0131. Ama zaman ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e Selim\u2019in ilgisizli\u011fi ve umursamaz tav\u0131rlar\u0131 Elif\u2019in i\u00e7ini kemiren bir yara haline gelmi\u015fti.<\/p>\n<p>Evlili\u011fin ilk y\u0131llar\u0131nda mutlulukla dolup ta\u015fan o ev, \u015fimdi sessizlikle yank\u0131lan\u0131yordu. Selim ak\u015famlar\u0131 i\u015ften geldi\u011finde y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc bile kald\u0131rmadan televizyonun kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na ge\u00e7iyor, Elif\u2019in varl\u0131\u011f\u0131na yokmu\u015f gibi davran\u0131yordu. Elif, g\u00fcn boyunca ev i\u015fleriyle bo\u011fu\u015furken kendini unutulmu\u015f bir nesne gibi hissediyordu. Bir g\u00fcn, mutfakta bula\u015f\u0131klar\u0131 y\u0131karken elindeki tabak kay\u0131p yere d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc. \u00c7\u0131kan ses, evin derin sessizli\u011fini b\u00f6ld\u00fc. Selim salondan yaln\u0131zca bir \u201cDikkat etsene!\u201d diye ba\u011f\u0131rd\u0131. Elif, yerdeki k\u0131r\u0131k par\u00e7alar\u0131 toplarken g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131 da yere damlad\u0131. Tabak k\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131, t\u0131pk\u0131 onun i\u00e7indeki umutlar gibi.<br \/>\nB\u00f6l\u00fcm 2: Yasak Bahar<br \/>\nElif\u2019in hayat\u0131, k\u0131z karde\u015finin do\u011fum g\u00fcn\u00fc i\u00e7in gitti\u011fi bir kafede tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 Cem\u2019le de\u011fi\u015fmeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Cem, ona hayatta h\u00e2l\u00e2 g\u00f6r\u00fclmeyi hak eden biri oldu\u011funu hissettiren nadir insanlardand\u0131. Onunla konu\u015fmak, Elif\u2019in uzun zamand\u0131r unuttu\u011fu bir bahar esintisi gibiydi.<\/p>\n<p>Cem\u2019in ilgisi, Elif\u2019in y\u00fcre\u011finde bir karma\u015fa yaratt\u0131. Bir yanda evlilik yeminine ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k, di\u011fer yanda y\u0131llard\u0131r \u00f6zlemini \u00e7ekti\u011fi s\u0131cakl\u0131k ve sevgi. G\u00fcnler ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e Elif, Cem\u2019le s\u0131k s\u0131k bulu\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Bu bulu\u015fmalar onun i\u00e7in bir ka\u00e7\u0131\u015f, bir nefesti. Ama bu durum vicdan\u0131n\u0131 da kemiriyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Bir ak\u015fam, Cem\u2019le sahilde otururlarken Cem, Elif\u2019e elini uzatt\u0131. \u201cBirlikte yeni bir hayat kurabiliriz,\u201d dedi. Ama Elif\u2019in zihni, Selim\u2019le olan evlili\u011fine ve bu durumun yarataca\u011f\u0131 kaosa tak\u0131l\u0131p kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Cem\u2019i sevdi\u011fini biliyordu, ama bir ad\u0131m atmak ona d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en zor karar\u0131 gibi geliyordu.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00f6l\u00fcm 3: Sessizlik ve F\u0131rt\u0131na<br \/>\nBir gece, Elif cesaretini toplay\u0131p Selim\u2019le konu\u015fmaya karar verdi. Salonda otururken derin bir nefes ald\u0131 ve \u201cSelim, biz neden bu hale geldik?\u201d diye sordu. Selim, televizyonun sesini k\u0131sarak ilk kez ona d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakt\u0131. \u201cNe demek istiyorsun?\u201d dedi, sesi sertti.<\/p>\n<p>Elif, i\u00e7ini d\u00f6kmeye ba\u015flad\u0131. \u201cY\u0131llard\u0131r yaln\u0131z hissediyorum. Art\u0131k birbirimizi g\u00f6rm\u00fcyoruz, konu\u015fmuyoruz. Ben evin bir par\u00e7as\u0131, senin i\u00e7in bir g\u00f6lge oldum. B\u00f6yle bir hayat\u0131 hak etti\u011fimi sanm\u0131yorum.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Selim\u2019in y\u00fcz\u00fcnde bir anl\u0131\u011f\u0131na \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131k belirdi, sonra ka\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7att\u0131. \u201cY\u0131llard\u0131r hi\u00e7bir \u015fik\u00e2yetin yoktu. \u015eimdi mi geldin bunlar\u0131 s\u00f6ylemeye?\u201d diye \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Elif, g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 tutamayarak odas\u0131na ko\u015ftu. O gece Cem\u2019in teklifini bir kez daha d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00f6l\u00fcm 4: Karar G\u00fcn\u00fc<br \/>\nElif, bir yol ayr\u0131m\u0131ndayd\u0131. Ya hayat\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015ftan a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirecek ve belki de Cem\u2019le mutlu bir hayat kuracakt\u0131 ya da kendini feda edip mutsuzlu\u011funa al\u0131\u015facakt\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Bir sabah, aynan\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na ge\u00e7ti. Y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki \u00e7izgiler ona y\u0131llard\u0131r ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 mutsuzlu\u011fu hat\u0131rlat\u0131yordu. Ama g\u00f6zlerinde ilk kez bir kararl\u0131l\u0131k vard\u0131. Cem\u2019le son kez bulu\u015fup karar\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klad\u0131: \u201cBen kendimi bulmak i\u00e7in gidiyorum, Cem. Ne Selim\u2019in ne de senin aras\u0131nda s\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131p kalamam.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>B\u00f6l\u00fcm 5: Yeni Bir Ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7<br \/>\nElif, o g\u00fcn kendi i\u00e7in bir ad\u0131m att\u0131. Bo\u015fanma davas\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7t\u0131, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir daire kiralad\u0131 ve hayat\u0131nda ilk kez yaln\u0131z ya\u015famay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Mutlulu\u011fu hemen bulamad\u0131, ama ilk kez \u00f6zg\u00fcrd\u00fc. Sessizlik art\u0131k huzur anlam\u0131na geliyordu, ve o sessizlikte kendi sesini duymay\u0131 \u00f6\u011freniyordu.<\/p>\n<p>Hayat bazen k\u0131r\u0131lan bir taba\u011f\u0131n sesinde sakl\u0131d\u0131r. Elif, kendi k\u0131r\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 toplamay\u0131 ve yeniden ba\u015flamay\u0131 se\u00e7ti. Ve bu se\u00e7im, onun i\u00e7in hayat\u0131n\u0131n en cesur karar\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>Kaynak : macoyun.com<\/p>\n"},"alt_text":"","media_type":"image","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","media_details":{"width":1200,"height":675,"file":"2025\/01\/1-203.jpg","sizes":{"medium":{"file":"1-203-300x169.jpg","width":300,"height":169,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1-203-300x169.jpg"},"large":{"file":"1-203-1024x576.jpg","width":1024,"height":576,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1-203-1024x576.jpg"},"thumbnail":{"file":"1-203-150x150.jpg","width":150,"height":150,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1-203-150x150.jpg"},"medium_large":{"file":"1-203-768x432.jpg","width":768,"height":432,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1-203-768x432.jpg"},"kucukResim":{"file":"1-203-80x50.jpg","width":80,"height":50,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1-203-80x50.jpg"},"sliderResim":{"file":"1-203-670x330.jpg","width":670,"height":330,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1-203-670x330.jpg"},"resim1":{"file":"1-203-184x140.jpg","width":184,"height":140,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1-203-184x140.jpg"},"resim2":{"file":"1-203-216x103.jpg","width":216,"height":103,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1-203-216x103.jpg"},"resim3":{"file":"1-203-145x70.jpg","width":145,"height":70,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1-203-145x70.jpg"},"sagSlider":{"file":"1-203-300x150.jpg","width":300,"height":150,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1-203-300x150.jpg"},"yeniSlider":{"file":"1-203-500x290.jpg","width":500,"height":290,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1-203-500x290.jpg"},"full":{"file":"1-203.jpg","width":1200,"height":675,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1-203.jpg"}},"image_meta":{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"0","keywords":[]}},"post":31945,"source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/1-203.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31947"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/attachment"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=31947"}]}}