{"id":47784,"date":"2026-05-03T22:14:47","date_gmt":"2026-05-03T19:14:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n.jpg"},"modified":"2026-05-03T22:16:16","modified_gmt":"2026-05-03T19:16:16","slug":"690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n","status":"inherit","type":"attachment","link":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/genel\/oglum-karisinin-onunde-bana\/attachment\/690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n\/","title":{"rendered":"O\u011flum Kar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n \u00d6n\u00fcnde Bana 30 Tokat Att\u0131!"},"author":2,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"description":{"rendered":"<p class=\"attachment\"><a href='https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n.jpg'><img width=\"249\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n-249x300.jpg\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n-249x300.jpg 249w, https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n.jpg 526w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 249px) 100vw, 249px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n"},"caption":{"rendered":"<p>Her bir darbeyi tek tek sayd\u0131m. Bir. \u0130ki. \u00dc\u00e7. O\u011flum bana otuzuncu kez vurdu\u011funda duda\u011f\u0131m patlam\u0131\u015f, a\u011fz\u0131m kan tad\u0131yla dolmu\u015ftu ve bir baba olarak tutundu\u011fum o son ink\u00e2r k\u0131r\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 da\u2026 u\u00e7up gitmi\u015fti. Bana ders verdi\u011fini san\u0131yordu. Kar\u0131s\u0131 Emel, koltukta oturmu\u015f izliyor; y\u00fcz\u00fcnde, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lanmas\u0131ndan zevk alan insanlara \u00f6zg\u00fc o sessiz ve gaddar g\u00fcl\u00fcmsemeyi ta\u015f\u0131yordu. O\u011flum; gen\u00e7li\u011fin, \u00f6fkenin ve Bebek\u2019teki o malik\u00e2nenin kendisini g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc k\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131na inan\u0131yordu. Fark etmedi\u011fi \u015fey neydi? O kral gibi davran\u0131rken\u2026 Ben her \u015feyi geri almaya \u00e7oktan karar vermi\u015ftim. Benim ad\u0131m Hikmet. 68 ya\u015f\u0131nday\u0131m. K\u0131rk y\u0131l\u0131m\u0131 T\u00fcrkiye\u2019nin d\u00f6rt bir yan\u0131nda yollar, kuleler ve ticari projeler in\u015fa ederek ge\u00e7irdim. Krizlerde pazarl\u0131klar yapt\u0131m, resesyonlardan sa\u011f \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131m ve \u00e7ok fazla insan\u0131n paray\u0131 karakterle kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131na \u015fahit oldum. \u0130\u015fte bu, o\u011flumun evini\u2026 o, ofisinde oturup hayat\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fcvende oldu\u011funu san\u0131rken nas\u0131l satt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131n hik\u00e2yesidir. \u015eubat ay\u0131n\u0131n so\u011fuk bir sal\u0131 g\u00fcn\u00fcyd\u00fc, onun do\u011fum g\u00fcn\u00fc yeme\u011fine gittim. Arabay\u0131 iki sokak \u00f6teye park ettim. Garaj yolu kiral\u0131k l\u00fcks arabalarla doluydu; d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan kusursuz g\u00f6r\u00fcnen, ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131n arkas\u0131ndaki emekten ziyade g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc seven insanlara ait ara\u00e7lard\u0131 bunlar. Elimde kahverengi k\u00e2\u011f\u0131da sar\u0131lm\u0131\u015f k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir hediye vard\u0131. Deniz\u2019in 30. ya\u015f g\u00fcn\u00fcyd\u00fc. D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ev kusursuz g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyordu. \u00d6yle de olmal\u0131yd\u0131. Paras\u0131n\u0131 ben \u00f6demi\u015ftim. Be\u015f y\u0131l \u00f6nce, hayat\u0131m\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck anla\u015fmalar\u0131ndan birini kapatt\u0131ktan sonra o m\u00fclk\u00fc nakit parayla sat\u0131n ald\u0131m. Deniz ve Emel\u2019in oraya ta\u015f\u0131nmas\u0131na izin verdim ve onlara evin art\u0131k onlar\u0131n oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledim. Onlara asla s\u00f6ylemedi\u011fim \u015fey neydi? Tapu hi\u00e7bir zaman onlar\u0131n ad\u0131na ge\u00e7memi\u015fti. Ev bir \u015firketin \u00fczerine kay\u0131tl\u0131yd\u0131. Ve tek sahibi bendim. Onlara g\u00f6re bu bir hediyeydi. Bana g\u00f6re ise bir s\u0131navd\u0131. Ve onlar s\u0131n\u0131fta kald\u0131lar. Belirtiler y\u0131llard\u0131r oradayd\u0131. Deniz bana \u201cBaba\u201d demeyi b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Emel, \u201cgelmeden \u00f6nce haber vermem\u201d konusunda \u0131srar ediyordu. Eski arabamdan, a\u015f\u0131nm\u0131\u015f ceketimden, ellerimden\u2014onlar\u0131n tad\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131\u011f\u0131 her \u015feyi in\u015fa eden o ellerden\u2014utan\u0131yorlard\u0131. Toplant\u0131larda beni \u00f6nemsiz biriymi\u015fim gibi tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yorlard\u0131. \u201c\u015eans\u0131 yaver giden adam.\u201d Bu beni hep g\u00fcl\u00fcmsetirdi. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u015fans\u0131m yaver gitmemi\u015fti. Onlar\u0131n anl\u0131yormu\u015f gibi yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 o d\u00fcnyay\u0131 ben in\u015fa etmi\u015ftim. O gece her \u015fey k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir mesele y\u00fcz\u00fcnden koptu. Deniz\u2019e restore edilmi\u015f antika bir saat verdim; dedesinin bir zamanlar sahip olmay\u0131 hayal etti\u011fi bir par\u00e7a. Y\u00fcz\u00fcne bile bakmad\u0131. Bir kenara f\u0131rlatt\u0131. Sonra herkesin \u00f6n\u00fcnde, benimle hi\u00e7bir ilgisi kalmam\u0131\u015f bir evde, minnet bekleyerek damdan d\u00fc\u015fer gibi gelmemden b\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi. Ben de ona sakince dedim ki: \u201c\u00dczerinde durdu\u011fun zemini kimin in\u015fa etti\u011fini asla unutma.\u201d Bu yetti. Aya\u011fa kalkt\u0131. Beni itti. Sonra vurmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Ve ben sayd\u0131m. G\u00fc\u00e7s\u00fcz oldu\u011fumdan de\u011fil. Art\u0131k bitti\u011fi i\u00e7in. Her darbe bir \u015feyleri s\u00f6k\u00fcp ald\u0131\u2014sevgiyi, umudu, mazeretleri. Durdu\u011funda, sanki bir zafer kazanm\u0131\u015f gibi soluk solu\u011fayd\u0131. Emel h\u00e2l\u00e2 bana sanki sorun bendeymi\u015fim gibi bak\u0131yordu. A\u011fz\u0131mdaki kan\u0131 sildim. O\u011fluma bakt\u0131m. And \u00e7o\u011fu ebeveynin \u00e7ok ge\u00e7 \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fi bir \u015feyi anlad\u0131m: Bazen minnettar bir evlat yeti\u015ftirmezsiniz. Bazen sadece nank\u00f6r bir adam\u0131 finanse edersiniz. Ba\u011f\u0131rmad\u0131m. Tehdit etmedim. Polisi aramad\u0131m. Hediyeyi ald\u0131m\u2026 Ve \u00e7ekip gittim. Ertesi sabah saat 08:06\u2019da avukat\u0131m\u0131 arad\u0131m. 08:23\u2019te \u015firketimi arad\u0131m. 09:10\u2019da ev gizli sat\u0131\u015f listesine konmu\u015ftu. 11:49\u2019da\u2014 o\u011flum ofisinde oturup her \u015feyin yolunda oldu\u011funu san\u0131rken\u2014 imzalar\u0131 att\u0131m. Sonra telefonum \u00e7ald\u0131. Arayan Deniz\u2019di. Nedenini zaten biliyordum. Birileri o malik\u00e2nenin kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u2014 ve onlar misafir de\u011fildi. A\u00e7t\u0131m. \u201cEvimde kim var?\u201d diye ba\u011f\u0131rd\u0131. Sakince arkama yasland\u0131m. \u201cYeni sahibinin temsilcileri,\u201d dedim. \u201cOnlar\u0131 bekletmesen iyi edersin.\u201d Sessizlik. Sonra panik. \u201cBunu yapamazs\u0131n! O benim evim!\u201d Neredeyse g\u00fcl\u00fcmsedim. \u201cBenim evim,\u201d diye tekrarlad\u0131m. \u201c\u0130lgin\u00e7.\u201d Sonra ona ger\u00e7e\u011fi s\u00f6yledim. \u201cOnu satmaya her t\u00fcrl\u00fc hakk\u0131m vard\u0131\u2014t\u0131pk\u0131 paras\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6dedi\u011fim zamanki gibi. T\u0131pk\u0131 d\u00fcn\u2026 asla senin olmayan bir evde bana otuz kez vurdu\u011fun zamanki gibi.\u201d Sustu. \u201cYapm\u0131\u015f olamazs\u0131n,\u201d dedi. \u201c\u00c7oktan yapt\u0131m.\u201d Ve telefonu kapatt\u0131m. \u00d6\u011fleden sonraya kadar her \u015fey darmada\u011f\u0131n oldu. Kilitler de\u011fi\u015ftirildi. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fanlar\u0131n kafas\u0131 kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u0130ll\u00fczyon bozuldu. Ama ev sadece ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7t\u0131. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir kez ger\u00e7ek y\u00fczeye \u00e7\u0131k\u0131nca, gerisi de geldi. O evi yat\u0131r\u0131mc\u0131lar\u0131 etkilemek i\u00e7in kullan\u0131yordu\u2014kendisininmi\u015f gibi g\u00f6steriyordu. O olmay\u0131nca? Her \u015fey \u00e7\u00f6kt\u00fc. O gece daireme geldi. \u00d6fkeli. \u00c7aresiz. \u201cSenin neyin var?\u201d diye hesap sordu. Ona bakt\u0131m. \u201cBana otuz kez vurdun,\u201d dedim. \u201cVe sorunun bende oldu\u011funu mu san\u0131yorsun?\u201d Kendini hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Onu k\u0131\u015fk\u0131rtt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 s\u00f6yledi. \u0130\u015fte o an i\u00e7imde bir \u015feyler tamamen kapand\u0131. \u201cNe istiyorsun?\u201d diye sordu. G\u00f6zlerinin i\u00e7ine bakt\u0131m. \u201cCuma g\u00fcn\u00fcne kadar \u00e7\u0131kman\u0131 istiyorum. Ne yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131nla y\u00fczle\u015fmeni istiyorum. Ve bir daha elini kald\u0131rmadan \u00f6nce birden otuza kadar her bir say\u0131y\u0131 hat\u0131rlaman\u0131\u2026\u201d Bir hafta sonra hayat\u0131 harabe halindeydi. \u0130\u015fi ask\u0131ya al\u0131nd\u0131. Kar\u0131s\u0131 gitti. Ev\u2014gitti. \u0130maj\u0131\u2014gitti. \u00dc\u00e7 hafta sonra geri geldi. Sand\u0131\u011f\u0131 o adam olarak de\u011fil. Sadece elinde hi\u00e7bir \u015feyi kalmam\u0131\u015f biri olarak. \u201cBana yard\u0131m et,\u201d dedi. \u201c\u00d6z\u00fcr dilerim\u201d de\u011fil. Sadece \u201cyard\u0131m et.\u201d Ben de ona ger\u00e7ekten \u00f6nemli olan tek yard\u0131m\u0131 sundum. \u201cBir i\u015f,\u201d dedim. \u201c\u0130n\u015faat sahas\u0131. Sabah 06:00. Kaytarmak yok.\u201d Hakarete u\u011fram\u0131\u015f gibi bakt\u0131. Belki de \u00f6yleydi. Ama ona verdi\u011fim ilk d\u00fcr\u00fcst teklifti bu. \u00d6nce arkas\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6n\u00fcp gitti. Sonra bir sabah, geri geldi. Elinde baretiyle. \u201cNereden ba\u015fl\u0131yorum?\u201d<\/p>\n"},"alt_text":"","media_type":"image","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","media_details":{"width":526,"height":635,"file":"2026\/05\/690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n.jpg","sizes":{"medium":{"file":"690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n-249x300.jpg","width":249,"height":300,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n-249x300.jpg"},"thumbnail":{"file":"690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n-150x150.jpg","width":150,"height":150,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n-150x150.jpg"},"kucukResim":{"file":"690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n-80x50.jpg","width":80,"height":50,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n-80x50.jpg"},"sliderResim":{"file":"690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n-526x330.jpg","width":526,"height":330,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n-526x330.jpg"},"resim1":{"file":"690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n-184x140.jpg","width":184,"height":140,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n-184x140.jpg"},"resim2":{"file":"690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n-216x103.jpg","width":216,"height":103,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n-216x103.jpg"},"resim3":{"file":"690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n-145x70.jpg","width":145,"height":70,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n-145x70.jpg"},"sagSlider":{"file":"690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n-300x150.jpg","width":300,"height":150,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n-300x150.jpg"},"yeniSlider":{"file":"690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n-500x290.jpg","width":500,"height":290,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n-500x290.jpg"},"full":{"file":"690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n.jpg","width":526,"height":635,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n.jpg"}},"image_meta":{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"0","keywords":[]}},"post":47783,"source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/690613887_1403633498457775_6543343751429041660_n.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/47784"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/attachment"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47784"}]}}