{"id":47785,"date":"2026-05-03T22:15:12","date_gmt":"2026-05-03T19:15:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8.jpg"},"modified":"2026-05-03T22:21:33","modified_gmt":"2026-05-03T19:21:33","slug":"1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-52","status":"inherit","type":"attachment","link":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/genel\/oglum-karisinin-onunde-bana\/attachment\/1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-52\/","title":{"rendered":"O\u011flum Kar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n \u00d6n\u00fcnde Bana 30 Tokat Att\u0131!"},"author":2,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":[],"description":{"rendered":"<p class=\"attachment\"><a href='https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8.jpg'><img width=\"300\" height=\"154\" src=\"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8-300x154.jpg\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8-300x154.jpg 300w, https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n"},"caption":{"rendered":"<p>O kral gibi davran\u0131rken&#8230; Ben her \u015feyi geri almaya \u00e7oktan karar vermi\u015ftim. Benim ad\u0131m Hikmet. 68 ya\u015f\u0131nday\u0131m. K\u0131rk y\u0131l\u0131m\u0131 T\u00fcrkiye\u2019nin d\u00f6rt bir yan\u0131nda otoyollar, i\u015f kuleleri ve ticari projeler in\u015fa ederek ge\u00e7irdim. Sendikalarla pazarl\u0131k yapt\u0131m, ekonomik krizlerden sa\u011f \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131m, dostlar\u0131m\u0131 topra\u011fa verdim ve \u00e7ok fazla insan\u0131n paray\u0131 karakterle kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131na \u015fahit oldum. \u0130\u015fte bu, hayat\u0131na kimsenin dokunamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sanarak masas\u0131nda oturan o\u011flumun evini&#8230; o oradayken nas\u0131l satt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131n hik\u00e2yesidir. \u015eubat ay\u0131n\u0131n so\u011fuk bir sal\u0131 g\u00fcn\u00fcyd\u00fc, onun do\u011fum g\u00fcn\u00fc yeme\u011fine gitmek i\u00e7in yola \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131m. Arabay\u0131 iki sokak \u00f6teye park ettim. Garaj yolu kiral\u0131k l\u00fcks arabalarla doluydu; hepsi par\u0131lt\u0131l\u0131, kusursuzdu ve ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131n arkas\u0131ndaki eme\u011fi de\u011fil, sadece g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc seven insanlara aitti. Elimde, sade kahverengi bir ka\u011f\u0131da sar\u0131lm\u0131\u015f k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir hediye ta\u015f\u0131yordum. O\u011flum Deniz\u2019in 30. ya\u015f g\u00fcn\u00fcyd\u00fc. D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ev muazzam g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyordu. \u00d6yle de g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeliydi. Paras\u0131n\u0131 ben \u00f6demi\u015ftim. Be\u015f y\u0131l \u00f6nce, kariyerimin en b\u00fcy\u00fck anla\u015fmalar\u0131ndan birini ba\u011flad\u0131ktan sonra o m\u00fclk\u00fc nakit parayla sat\u0131n ald\u0131m. Deniz ve Emel\u2019in oraya ta\u015f\u0131nmas\u0131na izin verdim ve onlara evin art\u0131k kendilerinin oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledim. Asla a\u00e7\u0131klamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u015fey neydi? Tapu hi\u00e7bir zaman onlar\u0131n ad\u0131na olmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Ev bir \u015firketin \u00fczerine kay\u0131tl\u0131yd\u0131. Ve o \u015firketin tek sahibi bendim. Onlara g\u00f6re bu bir hediyeydi. Bana g\u00f6re ise bir s\u0131navd\u0131. Ve onlar bu s\u0131navda s\u0131n\u0131fta kal\u0131yorlard\u0131. Uyar\u0131 i\u015faretleri y\u0131llard\u0131r oradayd\u0131. Deniz bana &#8220;Baba&#8221; demeyi b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Emel, &#8220;ziyarete gelmeden \u00f6nce haber vermem&#8221; konusunda \u0131srar ediyordu. Eski arabamdan, a\u015f\u0131nm\u0131\u015f ceketimden, nas\u0131rl\u0131 ellerimden\u2014onlar\u0131n \u00fczerinde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 her \u015feyi in\u015fa eden o ellerden\u2014utan\u0131yorlard\u0131. Davetlerde beni sanki modas\u0131 ge\u00e7mi\u015f biriymi\u015fim gibi tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yorlard\u0131. \u201c\u015eans\u0131 yaver giden adam.\u201d Bu beni hep g\u00fcl\u00fcmsetirdi. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u015fans\u0131m yaver gitmemi\u015fti. Onlar\u0131n anl\u0131yormu\u015f gibi yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 o d\u00fcnyay\u0131 ben in\u015fa etmi\u015ftim. O gece, her \u015fey k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir mesele y\u00fcz\u00fcnden koptu. Deniz\u2019e restore edilmi\u015f antika bir saat verdim; dedesinin bir zamanlar sahip olmay\u0131 hayal etti\u011fi bir par\u00e7ayd\u0131. Y\u00fcz\u00fcne bile bakmad\u0131. Sanki hi\u00e7bir de\u011feri yokmu\u015f gibi bir kenara f\u0131rlatt\u0131. Sonra herkesin \u00f6n\u00fcnde, art\u0131k benimle hi\u00e7bir alakas\u0131 kalmayan bir evde, s\u00fcrekli minnet bekleyerek damdan d\u00fc\u015fer gibi gelmemden b\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi. Ben de ona sakince: \u201c\u00dczerinde durdu\u011fun zemini kimin in\u015fa etti\u011fini asla unutma,\u201d dedim. Bu yetti. Aya\u011fa kalkt\u0131. Beni itti. Sonra vurmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Ve ben sayd\u0131m. G\u00fc\u00e7s\u00fcz oldu\u011fumdan de\u011fil. Bitti\u011fi i\u00e7in. Her darbe beraberinde bir \u015feyleri g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fc; sevgiyi, umudu, mazeretleri. Durdu\u011funda, sanki bir zafer kazanm\u0131\u015f gibi soluk solu\u011fayd\u0131. Emel h\u00e2l\u00e2 bana sanki sorun bendeymi\u015fim gibi bak\u0131yordu. A\u011fz\u0131mdaki kan\u0131 sildim. O\u011fluma bakt\u0131m. Ve \u00e7o\u011fu ebeveynin \u00e7ok ge\u00e7 \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fi bir \u015feyi anlad\u0131m: Bazen minnettar bir evlat yeti\u015ftirmezsiniz. Bazen sadece nank\u00f6r bir adam\u0131 finanse edersiniz. Ba\u011f\u0131rmad\u0131m. Tehdit etmedim. Polisi aramad\u0131m. Hediye kutusunu yerden ald\u0131m\u2026 Ve \u00e7ekip gittim. Her bir darbeyi tek tek sayd\u0131m. Bir. \u0130ki. \u00dc\u00e7. O\u011flum bana otuzuncu kez vurdu\u011funda duda\u011f\u0131m patlam\u0131\u015f, a\u011fz\u0131m kan tad\u0131yla dolmu\u015ftu ve bir baba olarak tutundu\u011fum o son ink\u00e2r k\u0131r\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 da\u2026 u\u00e7up gitmi\u015fti. Bana ders verdi\u011fini san\u0131yordu. Kar\u0131s\u0131 Emel, koltukta oturmu\u015f izliyor; y\u00fcz\u00fcnde, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lanmas\u0131ndan zevk alan insanlara \u00f6zg\u00fc o sessiz ve gaddar g\u00fcl\u00fcmsemeyi ta\u015f\u0131yordu. O\u011flum; gen\u00e7li\u011fin, \u00f6fkenin ve Bebek\u2019teki o malik\u00e2nenin kendisini g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc k\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131na inan\u0131yordu. Fark etmedi\u011fi \u015fey neydi? O kral gibi davran\u0131rken\u2026 Ben her \u015feyi geri almaya \u00e7oktan karar vermi\u015ftim. Benim ad\u0131m Hikmet. 68 ya\u015f\u0131nday\u0131m. K\u0131rk y\u0131l\u0131m\u0131 T\u00fcrkiye\u2019nin d\u00f6rt bir yan\u0131nda yollar, kuleler ve ticari projeler in\u015fa ederek ge\u00e7irdim. Krizlerde pazarl\u0131klar yapt\u0131m, resesyonlardan sa\u011f \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131m ve \u00e7ok fazla insan\u0131n paray\u0131 karakterle kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131na \u015fahit oldum. \u0130\u015fte bu, o\u011flumun evini\u2026 o, ofisinde oturup hayat\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fcvende oldu\u011funu san\u0131rken nas\u0131l satt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131n hik\u00e2yesidir. \u015eubat ay\u0131n\u0131n so\u011fuk bir sal\u0131 g\u00fcn\u00fcyd\u00fc, onun do\u011fum g\u00fcn\u00fc yeme\u011fine gittim. Arabay\u0131 iki sokak \u00f6teye park ettim. Garaj yolu kiral\u0131k l\u00fcks arabalarla doluydu; d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan kusursuz g\u00f6r\u00fcnen, ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131n arkas\u0131ndaki emekten ziyade g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fc seven insanlara ait ara\u00e7lard\u0131 bunlar. Elimde kahverengi k\u00e2\u011f\u0131da sar\u0131lm\u0131\u015f k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir hediye vard\u0131. Deniz\u2019in 30. ya\u015f g\u00fcn\u00fcyd\u00fc. D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ev kusursuz g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyordu. \u00d6yle de olmal\u0131yd\u0131. Paras\u0131n\u0131 ben \u00f6demi\u015ftim. Be\u015f y\u0131l \u00f6nce, hayat\u0131m\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck anla\u015fmalar\u0131ndan birini kapatt\u0131ktan sonra o m\u00fclk\u00fc nakit parayla sat\u0131n ald\u0131m. Deniz ve Emel\u2019in oraya ta\u015f\u0131nmas\u0131na izin verdim ve onlara evin art\u0131k onlar\u0131n oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledim. devam\u0131 sonraki sayfada\u2026 g\u00f6r.sel \u00fc.zeeeriiinden 2. say.faya ge.\u00e7iniz&#8230;<\/p>\n"},"alt_text":"","media_type":"image","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","media_details":{"width":768,"height":393,"file":"2026\/05\/1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8.jpg","sizes":{"medium":{"file":"1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8-300x154.jpg","width":300,"height":154,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8-300x154.jpg"},"thumbnail":{"file":"1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8-150x150.jpg","width":150,"height":150,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8-150x150.jpg"},"kucukResim":{"file":"1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8-80x50.jpg","width":80,"height":50,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8-80x50.jpg"},"sliderResim":{"file":"1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8-670x330.jpg","width":670,"height":330,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8-670x330.jpg"},"resim1":{"file":"1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8-184x140.jpg","width":184,"height":140,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8-184x140.jpg"},"resim2":{"file":"1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8-216x103.jpg","width":216,"height":103,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8-216x103.jpg"},"resim3":{"file":"1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8-145x70.jpg","width":145,"height":70,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8-145x70.jpg"},"sagSlider":{"file":"1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8-300x150.jpg","width":300,"height":150,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8-300x150.jpg"},"yeniSlider":{"file":"1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8-500x290.jpg","width":500,"height":290,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8-500x290.jpg"},"full":{"file":"1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8.jpg","width":768,"height":393,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8.jpg"}},"image_meta":{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"1","keywords":[]}},"post":47783,"source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/1757448125728-1000127585-27-768x393-1-8.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/47785"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/attachment"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47785"}]}}