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“Y\u0131llarca baban\u0131n h\u0131rs\u0131z oldu\u011funa inand\u0131m. \u0130hsan \u00f6ld\u00fckten sonra \u015firketin eski kay\u0131tlar\u0131n\u0131 incelerken korkun\u00e7 ger\u00e7e\u011fi \u00f6\u011frendim. Paray\u0131 \u00e7alan ki\u015fi kocamm\u0131\u015f. Babana iftira atarak kendi su\u00e7unu gizlemi\u015f.”
\n\u0130\u00e7imden bir \u015feylerin koptu\u011funu hissettim.
\nBabam\u0131n neden eski i\u015finden ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hi\u00e7bir zaman \u00f6\u011frenememi\u015ftim. Annem her sordu\u011fumda konuyu de\u011fi\u015ftirirdi. Babamsa ge\u00e7mi\u015fi hat\u0131rlamak istemedi\u011fini s\u00f6ylerdi.
\nM\u00fcjgan Han\u0131m mektubunda, babam\u0131n iftira y\u00fcz\u00fcnden b\u00fct\u00fcn birikimini kaybetti\u011fini, bor\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6deyebilmek i\u00e7in y\u0131llarca \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlat\u0131yordu.
\n“Kocam\u0131n \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnden sonra baban\u0131 buldum. Ona ger\u00e7e\u011fi anlatmak ve hakk\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6demek istedim. Ancak beni evinden kovdu. Param\u0131z\u0131 istemedi\u011fini, yaln\u0131zca ge\u00e7mi\u015fi unutmak istedi\u011fini s\u00f6yledi.”
\nG\u00f6zlerim doldu.
\nBabam\u0131n ge\u00e7irdi\u011fi fel\u00e7ten sonra hastane masraflar\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131lamak i\u00e7in nas\u0131l \u00e7aresizce bor\u00e7 arad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 hat\u0131rlad\u0131m.
\nM\u00fcjgan Han\u0131m’\u0131n mektubu devam ediyordu.
\n“Baban\u0131n hastaland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fimde yeniden yard\u0131m etmek istedim. Fakat gururundan dolay\u0131 bunu yine kabul etmeyece\u011fini biliyordum. O s\u0131rada seninle ilgili baz\u0131 \u015feyler \u00f6\u011frendim. Maddi s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar y\u00fcz\u00fcnden \u00e7aresizdin. Seni tan\u0131maya karar verdim.”
\n\u0130\u015fte o anda s\u00fcpermarketin \u00f6n\u00fcnde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fman\u0131n neden bu kadar kusursuz g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc anlad\u0131m.
\nHer \u015feyi M\u00fcjgan Han\u0131m ayarlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131!
\nAncak h\u00e2l\u00e2 anlayamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir \u015fey vard\u0131.
\nBenimle neden evlenmi\u015fti?
\nMektubun son sayfas\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7evirdi\u011fimde cevab\u0131 bulaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyordum. Fakat yaz\u0131lanlar beni daha da \u015fa\u015f\u0131rtt\u0131.
\n“Ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta sana yaln\u0131zca baban\u0131n hakk\u0131 olan paray\u0131 vermeyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyordum. Ama g\u00f6zlerindeki a\u00e7g\u00f6zl\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc fark etti\u011fimde farkl\u0131 bir karar ald\u0131m. Paray\u0131 elde etmek i\u00e7in neler yapabilece\u011fini g\u00f6rmek istedim. Sana evlenme teklif etti\u011fim g\u00fcn, y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki sevinci hi\u00e7 unutmad\u0131m. Oysa sen benimle de\u011fil, \u00f6ld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmde sahip olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn servetimle evleniyordun.”
\nUtan\u00e7 i\u00e7inde ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131 e\u011fdim.
\nM\u00fcjgan Han\u0131m hakl\u0131yd\u0131. Onunla ge\u00e7irdi\u011fim g\u00fczel zamanlara ra\u011fmen \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnden sonra miras\u0131na kavu\u015faca\u011f\u0131m g\u00fcn\u00fc hayal etmi\u015ftim.
\nFakat mektubun son c\u00fcmlesi beni yerimden s\u0131\u00e7ratt\u0131.
\n“\u015eimdi kutunun dibindeki siyah zarf\u0131 a\u00e7. Orada hayat\u0131n\u0131n en \u00f6nemli karar\u0131n\u0131 vermeni sa\u011flayacak \u015feyi bulacaks\u0131n.”
\nKutuyu kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131p siyah zarf\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131m.
\n\u0130\u00e7inde iki belge vard\u0131.
\n\u0130lki, M\u00fcjgan Han\u0131m’\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn mal varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n yoksul \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n e\u011fitimini destekleyen bir vakfa ba\u011f\u0131\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6steriyordu.
\n\u0130kinci belgede ise babam\u0131n ad\u0131 yaz\u0131yordu.
\nTurgay Bey \u00f6n\u00fcmdeki k\u00e2\u011f\u0131d\u0131 i\u015faret etti.
\n“M\u00fcjgan Han\u0131m, kocas\u0131n\u0131n y\u0131llar \u00f6nce baban\u0131zdan haks\u0131z yere ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 paran\u0131n bug\u00fcnk\u00fc de\u011ferini hesaplatm\u0131\u015f. Faizleriyle birlikte toplam 18 milyon lira ediyor.”
\nG\u00f6zlerim falta\u015f\u0131 gibi a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131.
\n“Yani bu para benim mi?”
\n“Hay\u0131r. Baban\u0131z\u0131n. Ancak burada k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir sorun var.”
\nAvukat\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki ifade de\u011fi\u015fti.
\n“Paran\u0131n baban\u0131za teslim edilebilmesi i\u00e7in onun ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ya\u015fananlar\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmesi gerekiyor. M\u00fcjgan Han\u0131m, ger\u00e7e\u011fi kendisinden saklamak istememi\u015f.”
\nBir anda b\u00fct\u00fcn heyecan\u0131m kayboldu.
\nBabam fel\u00e7 ge\u00e7irmi\u015fti. Zar zor konu\u015fabiliyordu. Y\u0131llar \u00f6nce ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 o korkun\u00e7 olay\u0131n yeniden g\u00fcndeme gelmesi onu nas\u0131l etkilerdi?
\n“Ba\u015fka bir yolu yok mu?” diye sordum.
\nTurgay Bey ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 sallad\u0131.
\nO ak\u015fam eve d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmde annem beni kap\u0131da kar\u015f\u0131lad\u0131. Y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fcn h\u00e2lini g\u00f6r\u00fcnce hemen ne oldu\u011funu sordu.
\nHi\u00e7bir \u015fey s\u00f6ylemeden foto\u011fraf\u0131 uzatt\u0131m.
\nAnnem foto\u011fraf\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc anda a\u011flamaya ba\u015flad\u0131.
\n“Demek sonunda \u00f6\u011frendin…”
\n\u015ea\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131kla y\u00fcz\u00fcne bakt\u0131m.
\n“Sen de mi biliyordun?”
\nAnnem mutfaktaki sandalyeye oturdu.
\n“Baban y\u0131llarca o kad\u0131ndan nefret etti. Ama hi\u00e7bir zaman onun su\u00e7lu oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmedi. \u0130hsan’\u0131n her \u015feyi planlad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan \u015f\u00fcpheleniyordu. Yaln\u0131zca bunu kan\u0131tlayamad\u0131.”
\nArd\u0131ndan bana hi\u00e7 bilmedi\u011fim bir \u015fey anlatt\u0131.
\nBabam fel\u00e7 ge\u00e7irmeden birka\u00e7 hafta \u00f6nce M\u00fcjgan Han\u0131m onu ziyaret etmi\u015f. Saatlerce konu\u015fmu\u015flar. Sonunda babam, ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ya\u015fananlar y\u00fcz\u00fcnden art\u0131k kimseyi su\u00e7lamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylemi\u015f.
\n“Ancak ona tek bir \u015fart ko\u015ftu,” dedi annem.
\n“Neymi\u015f?”
\n“Senin ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ya\u015fananlar\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmeni istemiyordu. \u0130nsanlardan nefret ederek b\u00fcy\u00fcmeni istemedi\u011fi i\u00e7in bunca y\u0131l sessiz kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.”
\nO gece g\u00f6z\u00fcme uyku girmedi.
\nErtesi sabah hastaneye gittim. Babam yata\u011f\u0131nda uzan\u0131yordu. Yan\u0131na oturup elini tuttum.
\n“Baba, sana bir \u015fey anlatmam gerekiyor.”
\nHer \u015feyi anlatt\u0131m. Foto\u011fraflar\u0131 g\u00f6sterdim. Mektubu ba\u015ftan sona okudum.
\nBabam uzun s\u00fcre sessiz kald\u0131.
\nSonunda g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fckle konu\u015ftu.
\n“O kad\u0131n… iyi miydi?”
\nBekledi\u011fim soru bu de\u011fildi.
\n“Evet baba. Bana \u00e7ok iyi davrand\u0131.”
\nBabam\u0131n g\u00f6zlerinden ya\u015flar s\u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fc.
\n“\u00d6yleyse… neden a\u011fl\u0131yorsun?”
\nO anda kendimi tutamad\u0131m.
\n“\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc onunla paras\u0131 i\u00e7in evlendim. Bana g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi sevginin de\u011ferini ancak \u00f6ld\u00fckten sonra anlad\u0131m.”
\nBabam elimi s\u0131kt\u0131.
\n“Paray\u0131… geri kazan\u0131rs\u0131n. Ama insanlar\u0131… geri getiremezsin.”
\nBu s\u00f6zler hayat\u0131m boyunca duydu\u011fum en a\u011f\u0131r ders oldu.
\nBirka\u00e7 g\u00fcn sonra yeniden Turgay Bey’in ofisine gittim. Babam\u0131n ge\u00e7mi\u015fte u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131 haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k haz\u0131rlanan belgeleri tamamlad\u0131k. Ancak ben de \u00f6nemli bir karar vermi\u015ftim.
\nBabama ait 18 milyon liran\u0131n tamam\u0131n\u0131 alacakt\u0131k. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu para ger\u00e7ekten onun hakk\u0131yd\u0131. \u00d6ncelikle tedavisini kar\u015f\u0131layacak, annemle babam\u0131n kalan hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 rahat ge\u00e7irmesini sa\u011flayacakt\u0131m.
\nFakat kendi ad\u0131ma herhangi bir servet istemiyordum.
\nM\u00fcjgan Han\u0131m’\u0131n evinin sat\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan elde edilen parayla kurulacak vak\u0131fta g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak istedi\u011fimi s\u00f6yledim.
\nTurgay Bey masan\u0131n \u00e7ekmecesinden k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir zarf \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131.
\n“M\u00fcjgan Han\u0131m bunu da b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Ancak yaln\u0131zca b\u00f6yle bir karar verirseniz teslim etmemi istedi.”
\nZarf\u0131n i\u00e7inde tek sayfal\u0131k bir mektup vard\u0131.
\n“Sevgili e\u015fim, sana bir tuzak kurdu\u011fumu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeni istedim. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta ikimiz de birbirimize kar\u015f\u0131 d\u00fcr\u00fcst de\u011fildik. Sen param\u0131n pe\u015findeydin, bense babana yap\u0131lan haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 telafi etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yordum. Ancak son g\u00fcnlerimde bana g\u00f6sterdi\u011fin \u015fefkatin ger\u00e7ek oldu\u011funa inanmak istedim. Yan\u0131mda kalmak i\u00e7in art\u0131k hi\u00e7bir sebebin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bile elimi tutmaya devam ettin. \u0130\u015fte o zaman sana ger\u00e7ekten \u00e2\u015f\u0131k oldu\u011fumu anlad\u0131m.”
\nMektubun son sat\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131 i\u00e7inde okudum.
\n“Sana servetimi b\u0131rakmad\u0131m. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc baban\u0131n hakk\u0131 olan parayla benim miras\u0131m ayn\u0131 \u015fey de\u011fil. Umar\u0131m bir g\u00fcn aralar\u0131ndaki fark\u0131 anlars\u0131n. Seninle ge\u00e7irdi\u011fim g\u00fczel g\u00fcnler i\u00e7in te\u015fekk\u00fcr ederim.”
\nAradan tam iki y\u0131l ge\u00e7ti.
\nBabam\u0131n sa\u011fl\u0131k durumu b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde d\u00fczeldi. Annemle birlikte art\u0131k maddi s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131yorlar. Ben ise M\u00fcjgan Han\u0131m’\u0131n ad\u0131na kurulan vak\u0131fta \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum.
\nGe\u00e7en hafta burs verdi\u011fimiz \u00e7ocuklardan biri yan\u0131ma gelerek b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde doktor olmak istedi\u011fini s\u00f6yledi.
\n“Neden doktor?” diye sordum.
\n“\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc benim gibi paras\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00fcz\u00fclmek zorunda kalan insanlara yard\u0131m edece\u011fim.”
\nO k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011fun s\u00f6zlerini duydu\u011fumda M\u00fcjgan Han\u0131m’\u0131 hat\u0131rlad\u0131m.
\nO g\u00fcn mezar\u0131n\u0131 ziyaret ettim. Yan\u0131ma onun en sevdi\u011fi \u00e7i\u00e7eklerden alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Mezar ta\u015f\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne oturup uzun uzun konu\u015ftum.
\n“Ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta senin paran\u0131 istiyordum M\u00fcjgan. Ama \u015fimdi anl\u0131yorum ki bana b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n en de\u011ferli \u015fey para de\u011filmi\u015f.”
\nMezar\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131ndan ayr\u0131l\u0131rken y\u0131llar sonra ilk kez kendimi ger\u00e7ekten zengin hissettim.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir zamanlar servetine sahip olabilmek i\u00e7in \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fc bekledi\u011fim kad\u0131n, kendi \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnden sonra bana hayat\u0131m boyunca unutamayaca\u011f\u0131m bir ders vermi\u015fti.
\n\u0130nsan\u0131n ger\u00e7ek zenginli\u011fi, \u00f6ld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde geride b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 para de\u011fil, ya\u015farken dokundu\u011fu insanlar\u0131n hayatlar\u0131nda b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 iyiliktir…..<\/p>\n"},"alt_text":"","media_type":"image","mime_type":"image\/jpeg","media_details":{"width":1024,"height":1536,"file":"2026\/10\/evle.jpg","sizes":{"medium":{"file":"evle-200x300.jpg","width":200,"height":300,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/evle-200x300.jpg"},"large":{"file":"evle-683x1024.jpg","width":683,"height":1024,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/evle-683x1024.jpg"},"thumbnail":{"file":"evle-150x150.jpg","width":150,"height":150,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/evle-150x150.jpg"},"medium_large":{"file":"evle-768x1152.jpg","width":768,"height":1152,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/evle-768x1152.jpg"},"kucukResim":{"file":"evle-80x50.jpg","width":80,"height":50,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/evle-80x50.jpg"},"sliderResim":{"file":"evle-670x330.jpg","width":670,"height":330,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/evle-670x330.jpg"},"resim1":{"file":"evle-184x140.jpg","width":184,"height":140,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/evle-184x140.jpg"},"resim2":{"file":"evle-216x103.jpg","width":216,"height":103,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/evle-216x103.jpg"},"resim3":{"file":"evle-145x70.jpg","width":145,"height":70,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/evle-145x70.jpg"},"sagSlider":{"file":"evle-300x150.jpg","width":300,"height":150,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/evle-300x150.jpg"},"yeniSlider":{"file":"evle-500x290.jpg","width":500,"height":290,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/evle-500x290.jpg"},"full":{"file":"evle.jpg","width":1024,"height":1536,"mime_type":"image\/jpeg","source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/evle.jpg"}},"image_meta":{"aperture":"0","credit":"","camera":"","caption":"","created_timestamp":"0","copyright":"","focal_length":"0","iso":"0","shutter_speed":"0","title":"","orientation":"0","keywords":[]}},"post":53967,"source_url":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/evle.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/53969"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/attachment"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/habercim\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=53969"}]}}