{"id":11541,"date":"2019-11-12T09:20:25","date_gmt":"2019-11-12T06:20:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/185.149.103.207\/~adanaseshaber\/haber-cocuklarda-akran-zorbaligina-karsi-yapilmasi-gerekenler-10667.html"},"modified":"2019-11-12T09:20:25","modified_gmt":"2019-11-12T06:20:25","slug":"cocuklarda-akran-zorbaligina-karsi-yapilmasi-gerekenler-10667","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/?p=11541","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocuklarda Akran Zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131na Kar\u015f\u0131 Yap\u0131lmas\u0131 Gerekenler"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">K&uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;k &ccedil;ocuklar\u0131 okul, park, okul servisi ve oyun alan\u0131 gibi yerlerde g&ouml;zlemledi\u011fimizde bunu a&ccedil;\u0131k&ccedil;a g&ouml;rebiliriz.&nbsp;Hastane Derindere Uzman Klinik Psikolog Dilek A&ccedil;\u0131kg&ouml;z &ccedil;ocuklarda akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekenleri anlatt\u0131.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\"><strong>Zorbal\u0131k Nedir?<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">Anas\u0131n\u0131f\u0131ndan &uuml;niversiteye kadar bir&ccedil;ok alanda kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za &ccedil;\u0131kmakta olan zorbal\u0131k, okullarda s\u0131kl\u0131kla ya\u015fanan ve anlaml\u0131 sorun te\u015fkil eden bir \u015fiddet t&uuml;r&uuml; olarak kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za &ccedil;\u0131k\u0131yor. Kendini g&uuml;&ccedil;l&uuml; kabul eden zorba, kendisine kar\u015f\u0131 koyamayacak bireye kar\u015f\u0131 tekrarlayan psikolojik, s&ouml;zel, sosyal ve\/veya ac\u0131 verebilecek nitelikte fiziksel sald\u0131r\u0131larda bulunur.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">Bir sald\u0131r\u0131y\u0131 zorbal\u0131k olarak tan\u0131mlayabilmemiz i&ccedil;in; kas\u0131tl\u0131 olarak zarar verme amac\u0131yla sald\u0131rgan davran\u0131\u015flarda bulunulmas\u0131 ve bu eylemlerin sadece bir kez de\u011fil, s&uuml;re\u011fen bir \u015fekilde uygulanmaya devam etmesi ve taraflar aras\u0131nda g&uuml;&ccedil; dengesinin e\u015fit olmamas\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131 s\u0131ra genellikle sistematik ve organize davran\u0131\u015flardan olu\u015fmas\u0131 gerekir. Burada dikkat edilmesi gereken unsur; zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 akran &ccedil;at\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 ile kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmamakt\u0131r. Zorbal\u0131k, &ccedil;ocuklar ve gen&ccedil;ler aras\u0131ndaki s&uuml;rt&uuml;\u015fmelere indirgenmemeli, bunun ba\u015fl\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131na sistematik bir sald\u0131rganl\u0131k t&uuml;r&uuml; oldu\u011fu bilinmelidir. Olas\u0131 yan\u0131lsama zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131n yay\u0131lmas\u0131na ve ma\u011fdurun daha fazla zarar g&ouml;rmesine neden olabilir.&nbsp;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\"><strong>Zorbal\u0131k T&uuml;rleri<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">Fiziksel Zorbal\u0131k<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">S&ouml;zel Zorbal\u0131k<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">Duygusal Zorbal\u0131k<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">Cinsel Zorbal\u0131k<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">Sibel Zorbal\u0131k<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\"><strong>Son y\u0131llarda siber zorbal\u0131k giderek art\u0131yor<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z y&uuml;zy\u0131l\u0131n son &ccedil;eyre\u011fine damgas\u0131n\u0131 vuran en &ouml;nemli geli\u015fmelerden biri de bilgi ve ileti\u015fim teknolojilerindeki ilerleyi\u015ftir. D&uuml;nyada siber zorbal\u0131k &uuml;zerine yap\u0131lan ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar &ouml;zellikle 2000&rsquo;li y\u0131llar itibar\u0131yla yo\u011funla\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Siber zorbal\u0131k vakalar\u0131n\u0131n say\u0131ca giderek &ccedil;o\u011falmas\u0131, hem konuya odakl\u0131 ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131n yap\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n hem de olas\u0131 zorbal\u0131\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 bilin&ccedil;li olmam\u0131z\u0131n &ouml;nemine i\u015faret etmektedir.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">SMS, MMS, sosyal payla\u015f\u0131m siteleri, resim, video klip, telefon, e-mail, Whatsapp ve hatta web sitelerinin ara&ccedil; olarak kullan\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 siber zorbal\u0131klar t&uuml;rlerine bakacak olursak:<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">&Ccedil;evirimi&ccedil;i kavga etme<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">Zarar verme<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">\u0130ftira<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">Ba\u015fka bir kimli\u011fe b&uuml;r&uuml;nme<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">Bilgilerini izinsiz kullanma<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">Ortaya &ccedil;\u0131karma<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">Sanal d\u0131\u015flama<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">Siber taciz olarak s\u0131ralayabiliriz.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\"><strong>Siber zorbal\u0131\u011fa mazur kalan &ouml;\u011frencinin okula olan ilgisinde azalma g&ouml;r&uuml;l&uuml;yor<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">Siber zorbal\u0131\u011fa mazur kalan &ouml;\u011frencinin okula ilgisi azalabilir. Depresyon belirtileri dikkat &ccedil;ekebilir. Okul ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131nda d&uuml;\u015f&uuml;\u015f g&ouml;r&uuml;lebilir. Okuldan ka&ccedil;ma ya da okulu b\u0131rakma hatta disiplin problemleri olu\u015fabilir. Kendine sayg\u0131n\u0131n azalmas\u0131, gururun incinmesi, ki\u015fisel olarak kendini su&ccedil;lama ile i&ccedil;e &ccedil;ekilme g&ouml;r&uuml;lebilir. Bunun tam aksi olarak da di\u011ferlerine zorbal\u0131k yapma, &ouml;&ccedil; alma planlar\u0131 yapma, intikam davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131, di\u011ferlerine kar\u015f\u0131 \u015fiddet kullanma y&ouml;n&uuml;nde davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda bozulma olabilir. \u0130ntihara te\u015febb&uuml;s ve intihar etme vakalar\u0131 da d&uuml;nya genelinde g&ouml;r&uuml;lmektedir.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\"><strong>Zorbal\u0131\u011fa Maruz Kald\u0131ysan\u0131z Ne Yapabilirsiniz?<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">Zorbal\u0131kla m&uuml;cadele olduk&ccedil;a zordur; ancak &ouml;ncelikle bilmelisiniz ki sorun siz de\u011filsiniz. Sorun bu davran\u0131\u015fta bulunanlardad\u0131r. E\u011fer bir &ouml;\u011frenci iseniz okulunuzun rehberlik servisinden yard\u0131m alabilirsiniz. Aileniz ve okul y&ouml;neticisi ile konu\u015fabilirsiniz. Okulda g&uuml;vende hissetmek sizin en do\u011fal hakk\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r. Zorbal\u0131k davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda bulunanlar hedef olarak gruplara dahil ki\u015fileri daha az tercih ederler. Gruplara dahil olabilirsiniz. G&uuml;venli internet kullan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 &ouml;\u011frenebilirsiniz. Ayr\u0131ca hissetti\u011finiz olumsuz duygu ve d&uuml;\u015f&uuml;ncelerinizi ifade edebilmeniz &ccedil;ok &ouml;nemlidir. Ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 yazman\u0131za, &ccedil;izmenize, oynaman\u0131za, konu\u015fman\u0131za olanak tan\u0131yan &ccedil;e\u015fitli terapilerden yararlanabilirsiniz.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\"><strong>Ebeveyn Olarak Ne Yapabilirsiniz?<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">&Ouml;ncelikle &ccedil;ocu\u011funuzun ya\u015f\u0131na uygun geli\u015fim sa\u011flamas\u0131 i&ccedil;in ya\u015f\u0131 ile uyumlu ortamlarda bulunup geli\u015fimine uyacak d&uuml;zeyde sosyalle\u015fmesine olanak sa\u011flayabilirsiniz.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">&Ouml;zellikle sosyal a\u011flarda g&uuml;venli internet ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131 kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan emin olunuz.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">Bilmedi\u011fi ve tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131 numaralar\u0131 ve tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131 hesaplar\u0131 engellemeyi &ouml;\u011frenmesi uygun olacakt\u0131r. Bu k\u0131s\u0131tlama internet ortam\u0131nda tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 ki\u015filerle bulu\u015fma riskini de ortadan kald\u0131rman\u0131z i&ccedil;in kolayla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 olacakt\u0131r.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">&Ccedil;ocu\u011funuz e\u011fer okul i&ccedil;inde kendini rahats\u0131z eden ki\u015fi ya da ki\u015filere maruz kal\u0131rsa; duruma ald\u0131rmay\u0131p, oldu\u011fu yerden y&uuml;r&uuml;y&uuml;p uzakla\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 ve bu t&uuml;r durumlar\u0131 okul rehberlik servisine, okul y&ouml;neticilerine ve size anlatabilece\u011fini a&ccedil;\u0131kl\u0131kla anlatabilirsiniz.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:20px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">&Ouml;zg&uuml;veni y&uuml;ksek &ccedil;ocuklar siber zorbal\u0131k ve di\u011fer zorbal\u0131k t&uuml;rlerine daha az maruz kal\u0131rlar. &Ouml;zg&uuml;venin temellerinin aile i&ccedil;inde at\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, dolay\u0131s\u0131yla anne baba tutumlar\u0131n\u0131n &ouml;nemini l&uuml;tfen hat\u0131rlay\u0131n\u0131z. Yard\u0131ma ihtiya&ccedil; duydu\u011funuz zamanlarda ruh sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 &ccedil;al\u0131\u015fanlardan destek alabilirsiniz.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>K&uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;k &ccedil;ocuklar\u0131 okul, park, okul servisi ve oyun alan\u0131 gibi yerlerde g&ouml;zlemledi\u011fimizde bunu a&ccedil;\u0131k&ccedil;a g&ouml;rebiliriz.&nbsp;Hastane Derindere Uzman Klinik Psikolog Dilek A&ccedil;\u0131kg&ouml;z &ccedil;ocuklarda akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekenleri anlatt\u0131. Zorbal\u0131k Nedir? Anas\u0131n\u0131f\u0131ndan &uuml;niversiteye kadar bir&ccedil;ok alanda kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za &ccedil;\u0131kmakta olan zorbal\u0131k, okullarda s\u0131kl\u0131kla ya\u015fanan ve anlaml\u0131 sorun te\u015fkil eden bir \u015fiddet t&uuml;r&uuml; olarak kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za &ccedil;\u0131k\u0131yor. Kendini g&uuml;&ccedil;l&uuml; &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":11543,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[12188,4981,5689,2048,12190,12189],"class_list":["post-11541","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-saglik","tag-akran","tag-cocuklarda","tag-gerekenler","tag-karsi","tag-yapilmasi","tag-zorbaligina"],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11541","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=11541"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11541\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/11543"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=11541"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=11541"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=11541"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}