{"id":272,"date":"2016-11-11T12:40:57","date_gmt":"2016-11-11T09:40:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/185.149.103.207\/~adanaseshaber\/haber-teog-oncesi-anne-ve-babalara-onemli-uyarilar-bunlari-sakin-yapmayin-4370.html"},"modified":"2016-11-11T12:40:57","modified_gmt":"2016-11-11T09:40:57","slug":"teog-oncesi-anne-ve-babalara-onemli-uyarilar-bunlari-sakin-yapmayin-4370","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/?p=272","title":{"rendered":"TEOG \u00d6ncesi anne ve babalara \u00f6nemli uyar\u0131lar; Bunlar\u0131 Sak\u0131n Yapmay\u0131n\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><em>\u00c7ocuklar;<\/em><\/strong>\u00a0hayatlar\u0131n\u0131n ak\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 etkileyecek bir yar\u0131\u015fa girecekler, bu \u2018yar\u0131\u015fta\u2019\u00a0 belirli dozda ya\u015fanan kayg\u0131 normaldir fakat \u00e7ocuk s\u0131nava farkl\u0131 anlamlar y\u00fckledi\u011finde, s\u0131nav\u0131 mutlaka kazan\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken bir \u2018sava\u015f\u2019 olarak alg\u0131lamaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda her bir \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma testini, hatta her bir soruyu da bir sava\u015f olarak g\u00f6rmeye ba\u015flar ve b\u00f6ylelikle kayg\u0131 g\u00fcn ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e artar ve s\u0131nav d\u00f6nemi atlat\u0131lmas\u0131 \u00e7ok zor olan bir \u2018kriz\u2019 haline d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Kayg\u0131n\u0131n Artma Nedenleri Nelerdir ?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Yanl\u0131\u015f anne baba tutumlar\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u2018ailemi hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na\u2019 u\u011frat\u0131rsam korkusu, huzursuz aile ortam\u0131,\u00a0 s\u00fcrekli ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015f bask\u0131s\u0131,\u00a0 ailenin s\u0131nav ve s\u0131nav sonu\u00e7lar\u0131yla a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 ilgilenmesi,\u00a0 ailenin s\u0131nav\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fun hayat\u0131n\u0131n en \u00f6nemli olay\u0131 olarak g\u00f6rmesi, \u00e7ocu\u011fa s\u0131nav\u0131 mutlaka kazanmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi mesaj\u0131n\u0131n verilmesi, \u00f6\u011frencinin s\u0131nava farkl\u0131 anlamlar y\u00fcklemesi,\u00a0 ailenin beklentisinin \u00e7ocu\u011fun kapasitesinin \u00fcst\u00fcnde olmas\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla k\u0131yaslanmas\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun s\u0131navla ilgili korkular\u0131n\u0131n yeterince \u00f6nemsenmemesi,\u00a0 kayg\u0131y\u0131 att\u0131ran nedenler aras\u0131ndad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>S\u0131nava Haz\u0131rlanan \u00c7ocuklar Ne Hisseder ?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bu d\u00f6nemde \u00e7ocuklar s\u0131nav\u0131 mutlaka kazanmak zorunda olduklar\u0131 bir yar\u0131\u015f olarak alg\u0131larlar. Aile, arkada\u015flar ve yak\u0131n \u00e7evrenin sadece alacaklar\u0131 puanla ilgilendiklerini, s\u0131nav\u0131 kazan\u0131rsa etraf\u0131ndaki herkesin kendisine daha \u00e7ok de\u011fer verece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrler bununla birlikte s\u0131nav d\u00f6neminde ailelerin kendileri i\u00e7in yapt\u0131klar\u0131 fedakarl\u0131klar nedeniyle ailelerine kar\u015f\u0131 bor\u00e7lu ve su\u00e7lu hissederler. Bunun sonucunda da kendilerini daha \u00e7aresiz hissedebilirler.\u00a0 Bu htikleri de s\u0131nav d\u00f6neminde davran\u0131\u015f de\u011fi\u015fiklerinin ba\u015f g\u00f6stermesine neden olur. Bunun sonucunda da k\u0131z \u00f6\u011frencilerde al\u0131nganl\u0131k, kolay a\u011flama, i\u00e7e d\u00f6n\u00fckl\u00fck, erkek \u00f6\u011frencilerde ise kolay \u00f6fkelenme gibi davran\u0131\u015f de\u011fi\u015fiklikleri ba\u015f g\u00f6sterebilir.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>S\u0131nav \u00d6ncesi \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za Nas\u0131l Davranmal\u0131y\u0131z ?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0\u00d6ncelikle \u00e7ocu\u011funuza, insan\u0131n her zaman kazanmas\u0131n\u0131n ve ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmas\u0131n\u0131n m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, kazanmak kadar kaybetmenin de hayat\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131 oldu\u011funu ve hayat\u0131n sonu olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlat\u0131n. \u00c7ocu\u011funuza, O\u2019nun ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli olan\u0131n \u2018elinden gelenin en iyisini yapmas\u0131\u2019 oldu\u011funu, s\u0131nav\u0131n O\u2019nun kaderi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, s\u0131nav\u0131n O\u2019ndan daha de\u011ferli olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, s\u0131navda ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olsa da O\u2019na kar\u015f\u0131 sevginizin devam edece\u011fini, sevginizden hi\u00e7bir \u015feyin eksilmeyece\u011fini, O\u2019nu destekleyece\u011finizi ve olumsuz bir yakla\u015f\u0131m sergilemeyece\u011finizi ve O\u2019nu her ko\u015fulda sevece\u011finizin mesaj\u0131n\u0131 verin. \u2018S\u0131nav bizim i\u00e7in \u00f6nemli de\u011fil\u2019, \u2018Kazanamazsan da Olur\u2019 gibi s\u00f6zler s\u00f6ylerken, a\u011fz\u0131n\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131kanla beden dilinizin birbiri ile uyumlu olmas\u0131na da her zaman \u00f6zen g\u00f6sterin ve dikkat edin. Unutmay\u0131n ki birbiri ile \u00e7eli\u015fkili mesajlar verdi\u011finizde \u00e7ocu\u011funuz daha \u00e7ok beden dilinize dikkat edecek ve bunun sonucunda da ailenin kayg\u0131l\u0131 hali \u00e7ocu\u011fa yans\u0131yacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>S\u0131nava haz\u0131rlanma s\u00fcrecinde, kendinizi \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun yerine koyup, O\u2019nun ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zorluklar\u0131, s\u0131navla ilgili korkular\u0131n\u0131 anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. S\u00f6yledi\u011fi ve hti\u011fi \u015feyler i\u00e7in O\u2019nu sorgulamay\u0131n, korkular\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmezden gelmeyin. \u2018Bu \u015fekilde hmemelisin\u2019 diyerek duygular\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fczeltmeyin ve k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsemeyin. Her ko\u015fulda O\u2019nu anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ve her ko\u015fulda yan\u0131nda olup O\u2019na destek olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 htirin.<\/p>\n<p>Verimli ve rahat \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilmesi i\u00e7in uygun ortam\u0131 sa\u011flay\u0131n. Gerekli materyallerin \u00f6nceden haz\u0131r oldu\u011fu \u0131s\u0131 ve \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n yeterli oldu\u011fu, dikkat da\u011f\u0131tacak uyaranlar\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir odada her zaman ayn\u0131 yerde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131na \u00f6zen g\u00f6sterin ve \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 her zaman \u00f6nemseyin, \u00e7ocu\u011funuz ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken televizyonun sesini \u00e7ok fazla a\u00e7mamak veya daha al\u00e7ak sesle konu\u015fmak gibi.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Yapabilece\u011finden \u00e7ok daha fazla ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 beklemek ya da s\u0131navda kapasitesinin \u00e7ok \u00fcst\u00fcnde ba\u015far\u0131 sa\u011flamas\u0131n\u0131 beklemek \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun kayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n artmas\u0131na neden olaca\u011f\u0131ndan, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla ili\u015fkili olarak beklentilerinizin ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i olmas\u0131na \u00f6zen g\u00f6sterin.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma gayretini her zaman takdir edin, O\u2019nun olumsuz yanlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmek yerine her zaman olumlu yanlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcn, yapamad\u0131klar\u0131na de\u011fil neleri yapabildi\u011fine odaklan\u0131n. Olumlu yanlar\u0131n\u0131 ve \u00e7abalar\u0131n\u0131 tespit ederek O\u2019nu her zaman \u00f6v\u00fcn.\u00a0 Bu davran\u0131\u015f bi\u00e7iminiz \u00f6zg\u00fcveninin artmas\u0131na ve kendisine olumlu bakmas\u0131na neden olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuza bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te \u00e7ok fazla ho\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fc ve \u00e7ok yumu\u015fak davranman\u0131z \u2018 evet ger\u00e7ekten de \u00e7ok k\u00f6t\u00fc bir durumla kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131yay\u0131m\u2019 mesaj\u0131n\u0131 verir bu nedenle bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te \u00e7ocu\u011funuza olabildi\u011fince \u2018normal\u2019 ve her zamanki gibi davran\u0131n.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>S\u0131nava haz\u0131rl\u0131k s\u00fcrecinde, \u00e7ocu\u011funuza zaman ay\u0131r\u0131p, O\u2019nunla keyif alabilece\u011finiz etkinlikler d\u00fczenlemeye ve faaliyetlere kat\u0131lmaya \u00f6zen g\u00f6sterin.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Anne- Baba Olarak S\u0131nav \u00d6ncesinde Yapmamam\u0131z Gerekenler Nelerdir ?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>S\u0131nav\u0131 hayat\u0131n en \u00f6nemli olay\u0131 gibi yans\u0131tmak \u00e7ocu\u011funuz s\u0131nav\u0131 g\u00f6z\u00fcnde b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcp kayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n artmas\u0131na benzer bir \u015fekilde s\u0131nav\u0131 hi\u00e7 \u00f6nemsemiyormu\u015f gibi davranmak da \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun s\u0131nav\u0131 \u00f6nemsememesine ve gereken sorumluluklar\u0131 almamas\u0131na neden olur. Bu nedenle s\u0131nav\u0131 \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fctmek ya da \u00f6nemsizmi\u015f gibi davranmak \u00e7ocu\u011funuza zarar verir.<\/p>\n<p>S\u0131nav kayg\u0131s\u0131 artt\u0131racak konu\u015fmalar yapmak, gelecekle ilgili kayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, kendi gerginli\u011finizi stresinizi \u00e7ocu\u011fa yans\u0131tmak, s\u0131nav sonucu ile a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 me\u015fgul olmak \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun s\u0131nav kayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 artt\u0131r\u0131r. Bu nedenle \u00f6\u011frencilere yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmak i\u00e7in s\u0131navla ilgili de\u011fil, \u00e7ocu\u011fun s\u0131nav i\u00e7in harcad\u0131\u011f\u0131 emekle ilgilenmek ve onu cesaretlendirmek do\u011fru davran\u0131\u015f bi\u00e7imidir.<\/p>\n<p>Anne babalar\u0131n iyi niyetli olarak verdi\u011fi ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015f mesajlar\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fun kayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 artt\u0131r\u0131r. \u00c7ocuk kendisi i\u00e7in de\u011fil ailesi i\u00e7in ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesine kap\u0131labilir, \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r gibi yapmas\u0131na neden olabilir ya da tepki g\u00f6stererek daha az ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fabilir, unutmay\u0131n ki \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 siz \u2018\u00e7ok \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u2019 dedi\u011finiz i\u00e7in de\u011fi\u015fmeyecektir. Benzer bir \u015fekilde okul-ev- ders \u00fc\u00e7geninde gidip gelen \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 sadece ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma davran\u0131\u015f\u0131yla doldurmas\u0131n\u0131 beklemek, ilgi ve faaliyetlerini azaltmas\u0131n\u0131 beklemek ve yasaklar koymak da \u00e7ocu\u011fu daha \u00e7ok ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya itmeyecek ve s\u0131nav s\u00fcrecinin daha da zor ve \u00e7alkant\u0131l\u0131 ge\u00e7mesine neden olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u2018Ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131s\u0131n\u2019,\u00a0 \u2018 Bu kadar puan almal\u0131s\u0131n\u2019 gibi zorunluluk ifade eden c\u00fcmleler kurmak,\u00a0 \u2018Bu gidi\u015fle sen kazanamazs\u0131n\u2019 gibi \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u00f6zg\u00fcvenini ve benlik sayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 olumsuz y\u00f6nde etkileyecek ifadeler kullanmak, \u00e7ocu\u011fu s\u0131nav sonu\u00e7lar\u0131yla korkutmak tehdit etmek,\u00a0 s\u0131navda ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olamayaca\u011f\u0131 bir durum s\u00f6z konusu olursa b\u00fcy\u00fck cezalar alaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ima etmek,\u00a0 \u2018Sorumsuzsun\u2019 gibi ifadelerle \u00e7ocu\u011fu ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda ele\u015ftirmek, deneme s\u0131navlar\u0131n\u0131n sonunda s\u00fcrekli yorum yapmak, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun s\u0131nava ger\u00e7ek d\u0131\u015f\u0131 bir anlam y\u00fcklemesine ve ailesinin kendisini de\u011fil s\u0131navdaki ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131na \u00f6nem verdi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmesine neden olur.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bu d\u00f6nemde \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck sorumlulu\u011fu, ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma sorumlulu\u011fudur bu nedenle ebeveynlerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na art\u0131 g\u00f6revler vermesi \u00e7ocu\u011fun ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma rutinin etkiler. Benzer bir \u015fekilde bu d\u00f6nemde \u00e7ocu\u011fa hi\u00e7bir sorumluluk vermemek de \u00e7ocu\u011fun s\u0131nav s\u00fcrecini kullanmas\u0131na neden olur.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>S\u0131nav s\u00fcrecinde baz\u0131 anne babalar\u00a0 \u2018tatil program\u0131 yapmamak\u2019, \u2018eve misafir \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmamak\u2019 gibi \u00e7ok fazla fedak\u00e2rl\u0131k yaparlar ve kendi hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 unuturlar sadece s\u0131nav ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 i\u00e7in ya\u015farlar. Bu durum \u00e7ocu\u011fa s\u0131nav\u0131n \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu, ailelerin fedak\u00e2rl\u0131klar\u0131na yan\u0131t vermek zorunda oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131r ve ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 kayg\u0131y\u0131 artt\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n yo\u011fun bir \u015fekilde s\u0131nava haz\u0131rland\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu zor d\u00f6nemde \u00e7ocuk ve ebeveynler aras\u0131ndaki anla\u015fmazl\u0131klar\u0131 konu\u015farak halletmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak, bu d\u00f6nemde \u00e7ocuklara a\u011f\u0131r cezalar vermemek,\u00a0 aile i\u00e7inde huzurlu ve sakin bir ortam yaratmak s\u0131nava haz\u0131rlanan \u00e7ocu\u011fun psikolojisi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan olduk\u00e7a \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n<p>TEOG\u2019la ilgili olumsuz ele\u015ftiri ve yorumlar, \u00e7ocu\u011fun s\u0131nava kar\u015f\u0131 olumsuz bir tutum geli\u015ftirmesine ve ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma iste\u011fini olumsuz y\u00f6nde etkilemesine neden olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Anne- Baba Olarak S\u0131nava Az bir Zaman Kala \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za Nas\u0131l Davranmal\u0131y\u0131z?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>S\u0131nav, s\u0131nav s\u00fcreci gibi, s\u0131navla ilgili konular hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fmamaya, \u00f6zellikle s\u0131navla ilgili kayg\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011funuza yans\u0131tmamaya \u00f6zen g\u00f6sterin;\u00a0 O\u2019nun s\u0131navdaki ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 ve O\u2019na duydu\u011funuz sevginin hi\u00e7bir ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 her f\u0131rsatta dile getirin.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun bunald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, keyifsiz, yorgun ve umutsuz oldu\u011funu hti\u011finizde, O\u2019nu dinleyip anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n, \u00a0s\u0131nav odakl\u0131 olmayan konu\u015fmalar yap\u0131n, ne\u015feli olun, s\u0131k s\u0131k espri yap\u0131n, O\u2019nu rahatlatacak, enerjisini tazeleyecek etkinlikler yap\u0131n, O\u2019nu mutlu etmek i\u00e7in k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck hediyeler al\u0131n ve \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla ho\u015f ve keyifli vakit ge\u00e7irin.<\/p>\n<p>S\u0131navdan \u00f6nceki geceler, \u00e7ok ge\u00e7 saatte uyumamas\u0131 ve az uykuyla s\u0131nava ba\u015flamamas\u0131 i\u00e7in uyku d\u00fczenine dikkat edin. \u00d6zellikle s\u0131nav \u00f6ncesi yeni besinler denememesine, ya\u011fl\u0131 ve sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bozacak besinler yememesine \u00f6zen g\u00f6sterin.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>S\u0131navdan Bir g\u00fcn \u00d6nce \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za Nas\u0131l Davranmal\u0131y\u0131z?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>S\u0131nava bir g\u00fcn kala, ola\u011fan\u00fcst\u00fc davran\u0131\u015flar sergilemeyin. Ak\u015fam\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 rutin olarak s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcn. S\u0131navdan bir \u00f6nceki ak\u015fam, \u00e7ok fazla yorucu aktivitelerden ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n, belki k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir gezi veya havadar bir alanda keyifli etkinlikler yapabilirsiniz.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Bu t\u00fcr zamanlarda \u00e7ocuklar genellikle konu\u015fmak istemezler, bu nedenle konu\u015fmak istemedi\u011fi i\u00e7in O\u2019na k\u0131zmay\u0131n ve bu iste\u011fine sayg\u0131 g\u00f6sterin.<\/p>\n<p>Ki\u015fiden ki\u015fiye farkl\u0131l\u0131k g\u00f6stermekle birlikte son g\u00fcn ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak kayg\u0131y\u0131 artt\u0131raca\u011f\u0131ndan \u00e7ocu\u011funuza bir g\u00fcn \u00f6ncesinden ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 b\u0131rakmas\u0131n\u0131 tavsiye edebilirsiniz.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Bir g\u00fcn \u00f6ncesinde TEOG\u2019la ilgili haberler duymak, g\u00f6rsel ve yaz\u0131l\u0131 bas\u0131nda \u00e7\u0131kan haberleri g\u00f6rmek ve takip etmek zorunda kalmak \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun kayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 att\u0131raca\u011f\u0131ndan s\u0131navla ilgili haberler verebilecek televizyon, bilgisayar, gazete gibi kitle ileti\u015fim ara\u00e7lar\u0131ndan uzak durun benzer bir \u015fekilde yak\u0131nlar\u0131ndan gelebilecek olan \u2018Ba\u015far\u0131\u2019 telefonlar\u0131 i\u00e7in de \u00f6nlem al\u0131n.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun s\u0131nav evraklar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nceden haz\u0131rlay\u0131n ve \u00e7ocu\u011funuza her \u015feyin tam oldu\u011funu \u00f6nceden s\u00f6yleyin.<\/p>\n<p>S\u0131nav \u00f6ncesi en ge\u00e7 22.30- 23.00 gibi yatmas\u0131na \u00f6zen g\u00f6sterin, gece uyumakta zorlan\u0131yorsa, \u0131l\u0131k bir du\u015f ve dinlendirici bir m\u00fczik uyumas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>S\u0131nav G\u00fcn\u00fc \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za Nas\u0131l Davran mal\u0131y\u0131z?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>S\u0131nav sabah\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011funuza, O\u2019nun ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131layacak \u015fekilde normal bir kahvalt\u0131 haz\u0131rlay\u0131n ve s\u0131navda rahat edece\u011fi kifayetler giymesini sa\u011flay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>S\u0131nav g\u00fcn\u00fc, \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u2018en \u00f6nemli an\u0131\u2019ym\u0131\u015f gibi\u2019 davranmay\u0131n, s\u0131radan bir g\u00fcn gibi davran\u0131n ve asla rutininizi bozmay\u0131n. Benzer bir \u015fekilde \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu t\u00f6renle, okunmu\u015f \u015fekerle, c\u00fcmb\u00fcr cemaat t\u00fcm aile s\u0131nava yollamay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>S\u0131nava \u00e7ok erken gitmek \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun kayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 artt\u0131rabilece\u011fi gibi \u00e7ok ge\u00e7 gitmek de hem sizde hem de \u00e7ocu\u011funuzda stres yaratabilir. Bu nedenle s\u0131nav saatine 45 dakika kala okulunuzda olun.\u00a0 Fakat tercih edileni, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun s\u0131nava rutinini bozmadan okul servis arac\u0131yla gitmesidir.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Ailelerimiz \u2018S\u0131nav An\u0131 \u0130\u00e7in \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za Neler \u00d6nerebilirler ?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar i\u00e7in en b\u00fcy\u00fck tehlike s\u0131nav an\u0131nda s\u0131navla ilgili d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmektir. Bu nedenle ailelerimiz \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na s\u0131nav an\u0131nda s\u0131nav\u0131 de\u011fil, sorular \u00fczerinde odaklanmas\u0131n\u0131; heyecanland\u0131\u011f\u0131 zamanlarda \u00fc\u00e7e kadar say\u0131p nefesini tutup b\u0131rakmas\u0131n\u0131, s\u0131nav ge\u00e7i\u015flerinde birer iki\u015fer dakika mola vermesini \u00f6\u011f\u00fctleyebilirler.<\/p>\n<p>Molalarda sorular hakk\u0131nda arkada\u015flar ve aile \u00fcyeleri ile konu\u015fmak kayg\u0131y\u0131 artt\u0131r\u0131p \u00e7ocu\u011fun performans\u0131n\u0131 etkileyece\u011finden, molalarda hi\u00e7bir \u015fekilde hi\u00e7 kimse ile sorular hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi de \u00f6nceden \u00e7ocu\u011fa uygun bir dille ifade edilmelidir.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>S\u0131nav esnas\u0131nda s\u00fcrenin tamam\u0131n\u0131 kullanmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi,\u00a0 s\u0131nav\u0131n erken bitmesi durumunda evraklar\u0131n\u0131 ve kitap\u00e7\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kontrol etmesi gerekti\u011fi,\u00a0 sorular\u0131n hepsi ayn\u0131 puan oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in tak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 soruyla inatla\u015fmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi,\u00a0 tak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 soruyu bo\u015f b\u0131rak\u0131p di\u011fer soruya ge\u00e7mesi gerekti\u011fi,\u00a0 optik forma yan\u0131tlar\u0131n\u0131\u00a0 ya teker teker ya da birer sayfa olarak ge\u00e7irmesi gerekti\u011fi \u00e7ocu\u011fa anlat\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>S\u0131nav bittikten sonra, \u00e7ocuk s\u0131nav hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fmak istemiyor ise O\u2019na sayg\u0131 g\u00f6sterilmeli ve s\u0131navla ilgili sorular sorulmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi ak\u0131ldan \u00e7\u0131kart\u0131lmamal\u0131d\u0131r buna ek olarak \u00e7ocu\u011funuza besledi\u011finizin sevginin s\u0131navla ili\u015fkili olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6stermek amac\u0131yla, s\u0131nav sonras\u0131nda t\u00fcm aile \u00fcyeleri hep birlikte e\u011flenceli \u015feyler yap\u0131lmas\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011funun ger\u00e7ekten sevildi\u011fini hmesine neden olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ocuklar;\u00a0hayatlar\u0131n\u0131n ak\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 etkileyecek bir yar\u0131\u015fa girecekler, bu \u2018yar\u0131\u015fta\u2019\u00a0 belirli dozda ya\u015fanan kayg\u0131 normaldir fakat \u00e7ocuk s\u0131nava farkl\u0131 anlamlar y\u00fckledi\u011finde, s\u0131nav\u0131 mutlaka kazan\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken bir \u2018sava\u015f\u2019 olarak alg\u0131lamaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda her bir \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma testini, hatta her bir soruyu da bir sava\u015f olarak g\u00f6rmeye ba\u015flar ve b\u00f6ylelikle kayg\u0131 g\u00fcn ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e artar ve s\u0131nav d\u00f6nemi atlat\u0131lmas\u0131 \u00e7ok zor olan &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":273,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[2252,2253,2256,2251,2254,2257,2250,2255,1911,2258],"class_list":["post-272","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-genel","tag-anne","tag-babalara","tag-bunlari","tag-oncesi","tag-onemli","tag-sakin","tag-teog","tag-uyarilar","tag-ve","tag-yapmayin"],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/272","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=272"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/272\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/273"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=272"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=272"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=272"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}