{"id":280,"date":"2016-11-11T13:17:03","date_gmt":"2016-11-11T10:17:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/185.149.103.207\/~adanaseshaber\/haber-cocuklarimizi-korumanin-tek-yolu-egitim-4373.html"},"modified":"2016-11-11T13:17:03","modified_gmt":"2016-11-11T10:17:03","slug":"cocuklarimizi-korumanin-tek-yolu-egitim-4373","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/?p=280","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 Koruman\u0131n Tek Yolu E\u011fitim\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Aile ve Evlilik Terapisti Dr. Obeng\u00fcl Ejder, her \u00e7a\u011f\u0131n, her toplumun ve toplumdaki her katman\u0131n sorunu haline gelen cinsel istismar vakalar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 korumak, aileleri bilin\u00e7lendirmek amac\u0131yla y\u00fcr\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fc sosyal sorumluluk projesi \u00e7er\u00e7evesinde \u00d6zel \u0130lknur Kara Koleji\u2019nde e\u011fitim semineri verdi.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6\u011fretmen ve velilerin yo\u011fun ilgi g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi \u201c\u00c7ocuklarda Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 Cinsel Geli\u015fim, \u0130hmal ve \u0130stismar\u0131n \u00d6nlenmesinde E\u011fitimin \u00d6nemi\u201d adl\u0131 seminerde Dr. Ejder s\u00f6zlerine, son y\u0131llarda kamuoyuna yans\u0131yan, s\u0131k\u00e7a duyar oldu\u011fumuz cinsel istismar konusuyla birlikte \u00e7ocuklara aile i\u00e7inde verilecek olan mahremiyet ve cinsel e\u011fitimin \u00f6nemine dikkat \u00e7ekerek ba\u015flad\u0131.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 Koruman\u0131n Tek Yolu E\u011fitim\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Gerek anne, gerek baba taraf\u0131ndan verilecek cinsel e\u011fitimle \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ve ergenin ba\u015fka kaynaklara y\u00f6nelmesinin engellenebilece\u011fine i\u015faret eden Dr. Ejder, \u201cHer g\u00fcn ismini ve ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 bilmedi\u011fimiz \u00e7ocuklar aile bireyleri taraf\u0131ndan fiziksel, cinsel ya da duygusal ihmal veya istismara u\u011fruyor. Medya arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile duyduklar\u0131n\u0131zdan, g\u00f6rd\u00fcklerinizden ba\u015fka nice i\u00e7e at\u0131lm\u0131\u015f \u00f6yk\u00fcler, sessiz \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131klar, k\u00e2bus dolu g\u00fcnler ya\u015fan\u0131yor. B\u00fct\u00fcn bu ger\u00e7eklerle ka\u00e7arak de\u011fil, bilgilenerek ve etraf\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 do\u011fru bilgi ile bulu\u015fturarak\u00a0 sava\u015fabiliriz. \u00a0\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 koruman\u0131n tek yolu\u00a0e\u011fitim.\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c7ocuklara Ne \u00d6\u011fretilmeli?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Cinsel e\u011fitime ba\u015flamak i\u00e7in belli bir ya\u015f bulunmamas\u0131na ra\u011fmen, anne babalar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 3-4 ya\u015f civar\u0131nda ilk sorularla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildiren Terapist Dr. Obeng\u00fcl Ejder, \u00e7ocuklara verilecek cinsel e\u011fitimde dikkat edilmesi gerekleri \u015f\u00f6yle s\u0131ralad\u0131:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011fun geli\u015fim d\u00f6nemine uygun bilgilendirme yap\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ya\u015f\u0131ndan fazla bilgi \u00e7ocukta kafa kar\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yapabilir.<\/li>\n<li>K\u0131sa, ger\u00e7ek ve net cevaplar vermelisiniz.<\/li>\n<li>K\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funa annenin, erkek \u00e7ocu\u011funa ise baban\u0131n bilgi vermesi daha do\u011fald\u0131r.<\/li>\n<li>Cinsel organlar \u00e7e\u015fitli adland\u0131rmalar ile de\u011fil \u201cvajina\u201d, \u201cpenis\u201d , \u201ctestis\u201d, \u201cmeme\u201d gibi bilimsel adlar\u0131 ile \u00f6\u011fretilmelidir.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011fa cinsel organ\u0131n\u0131 ke\u015ffederken, bunu herkesin \u00f6n\u00fcnde uygun olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 anlat\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocu\u011fa v\u00fccuduna sahip \u00e7\u0131kabilece\u011fi, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n dokunma iste\u011fine hay\u0131r diye cevap verece\u011fi anlat\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/li>\n<li>\u00d6zellikle de \u00e7ocu\u011fa kendisinden b\u00fcy\u00fck ki\u015filerin cinsel organ\u0131na dokunmas\u0131n\u0131n uygun olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 anlat\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong>Gen\u00e7lere, Cinselli\u011fin Sevgi ve Sayg\u0131ya Dayal\u0131 Bir Birliktelik Oldu\u011fu Ger\u00e7e\u011fi Anlat\u0131lmal\u0131.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131lar\u0131n sorular\u0131n\u0131 da yan\u0131tlayan Aile ve Evlilik Terapisti Dr. Ejder, gen\u00e7lere verilecek cinsel e\u011fitimde, cinselli\u011fin sadece kad\u0131n erkek aras\u0131ndaki fiziksel bir ili\u015fki olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131, ayn\u0131 zamanda duygusal, sevgiye ve sayg\u0131ya dayal\u0131 bir ili\u015fki oldu\u011fu mesaj\u0131n\u0131n vurgulanmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6zlerine son verdi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Aile ve Evlilik Terapisti Dr. Obeng\u00fcl Ejder, her \u00e7a\u011f\u0131n, her toplumun ve toplumdaki her katman\u0131n sorunu haline gelen cinsel istismar vakalar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 korumak, aileleri bilin\u00e7lendirmek amac\u0131yla y\u00fcr\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fc sosyal sorumluluk projesi \u00e7er\u00e7evesinde \u00d6zel \u0130lknur Kara Koleji\u2019nde e\u011fitim semineri verdi. \u00a0 \u00d6\u011fretmen ve velilerin yo\u011fun ilgi g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi \u201c\u00c7ocuklarda Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 Cinsel Geli\u015fim, \u0130hmal ve \u0130stismar\u0131n \u00d6nlenmesinde E\u011fitimin &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":281,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[2270,2273,2271,2049,2272],"class_list":["post-280","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-genel","tag-cocuklarimizi","tag-egitim","tag-korumanin","tag-tek","tag-yolu"],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/280","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=280"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/280\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/281"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=280"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=280"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=280"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}