{"id":7480,"date":"2017-05-09T10:48:49","date_gmt":"2017-05-09T07:48:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/185.149.103.207\/~adanaseshaber\/haber-es-secimi-tesaduflere-birakilmamalidir-6630.html"},"modified":"2017-05-09T10:48:49","modified_gmt":"2017-05-09T07:48:49","slug":"es-secimi-tesaduflere-birakilmamalidir-6630","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/?p=7480","title":{"rendered":"E\u015f Se\u00e7imi Tesad\u00fcflere B\u0131rak\u0131lmamal\u0131d\u0131r!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:22px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">Toplumun temel dire\u011fi olan ailenin ilk ad\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n evlilik oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlatan Dr. Ejder, evlili\u011fin tesad&uuml;flere b\u0131rak\u0131lacak bir kurum olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, evlili\u011fin temellerinin a\u015fkla, sevgiyle, bilin&ccedil;le at\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini ifade ederek, &ldquo;\u0130lk &ouml;nce ki\u015filik &ouml;zelliklerinizi, evlilikten beklentilerinizi, e\u015finizden ne isteyip istemedi\u011finizi fark etmeli ve kendinizi iyi tan\u0131mal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Daha sonra kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiyi tan\u0131mak i&ccedil;in ad\u0131m atmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Birbirinizi tan\u0131mak i&ccedil;in en az 6 ayl\u0131k bir s&uuml;reye ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131z olacakt\u0131r.&rdquo; \u015feklinde konu\u015ftu.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:22px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\"><strong>Bu Sorular\u0131n En Az yar\u0131s\u0131na &lsquo;Evet&rsquo; Diyorsan\u0131z Evlenmeye Haz\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z Demektir&hellip;<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:22px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">E\u015f se&ccedil;iminin &ccedil;ok &ouml;nemli oldu\u011funu belirten Dr. Obeng&uuml;l Ejder, e\u015f se&ccedil;erken ki\u015finin kendi kendisine sormas\u0131 gerek sorular\u0131 \u015fu \u015fekilde a&ccedil;\u0131klayarak bu sorular\u0131n yar\u0131s\u0131na &lsquo;evet&rsquo; diyen ki\u015filerin evlenmeye haz\u0131r oldu\u011funu s&ouml;yledi.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family:tahoma,geneva,sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size:22px\"><span style=\"color:#000000\">&nbsp;&ldquo;Kendimi evlenmeye haz\u0131r hissediyor muyum? Evlili\u011fin getirdi\u011fi sorumluklar\u0131 &uuml;stlenmeye haz\u0131r m\u0131y\u0131m? A\u015fkla, severek ve isteyerek mi evleniyorum yoksa s\u0131rf ailemden veya ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m sorunlardan ka&ccedil;mak i&ccedil;in s\u0131\u011f\u0131nacak bir liman olarak m\u0131 g&ouml;r&uuml;yorum? Ona kar\u015f\u0131 sevgi ve sayg\u0131 besliyor muyum? Fiziksel ve cinsel yeterince &ccedil;ekici buluyor muyum? Fikirlerine sayg\u0131 duyuyor muyum? Onu &ldquo;ben &ldquo; olmaya zorlamadan, bo\u011fmadan kendisi olma &ouml;zg&uuml;rl&uuml;\u011f&uuml;n&uuml; tan\u0131yabilecek miyim?&nbsp; Duygu ve d&uuml;\u015f&uuml;ncelerimi ona a&ccedil;\u0131k ve net bir \u015fekilde ifade edebiliyor muyum? Evlili\u011fimizde olu\u015fabilecek problemlerle ba\u015fa &ccedil;\u0131kabilece\u011fime inan\u0131yor muyum? Ailesi ve ge&ccedil;mi\u015fi hakk\u0131nda yeterince bilgim var m\u0131? Aile yap\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, &ouml;rf ve adetlerimizin, dini inan&ccedil;lar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n olas\u0131 farkl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 biliyor muyum?&nbsp; Bu farkl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131n do\u011furabilece\u011fi problemlere ve &ccedil;&ouml;z&uuml;mlerine haz\u0131r m\u0131y\u0131m? Yeti\u015ftirece\u011fim evlad\u0131ma anne babal\u0131k yapabilme potansiyeline sahip miyim?&rdquo;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Toplumun temel dire\u011fi olan ailenin ilk ad\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n evlilik oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlatan Dr. Ejder, evlili\u011fin tesad&uuml;flere b\u0131rak\u0131lacak bir kurum olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, evlili\u011fin temellerinin a\u015fkla, sevgiyle, bilin&ccedil;le at\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini ifade ederek, &ldquo;\u0130lk &ouml;nce ki\u015filik &ouml;zelliklerinizi, evlilikten beklentilerinizi, e\u015finizden ne isteyip istemedi\u011finizi fark etmeli ve kendinizi iyi tan\u0131mal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Daha sonra kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiyi tan\u0131mak i&ccedil;in ad\u0131m atmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Birbirinizi tan\u0131mak i&ccedil;in en &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7482,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[9439,9275,7553,9438],"class_list":["post-7480","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-saglik","tag-birakilmamalidir","tag-es","tag-secimi","tag-tesaduflere"],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7480","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7480"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7480\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/7482"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7480"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7480"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7480"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}