5 Aral\u0131k D\u00fcnya Kad\u0131nlar Haklar\u0131 G\u00fcn\u00fc nedeniyle a\u00e7\u0131klama yapan Dr. Obeng\u00fcl Ejder, T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de kad\u0131na y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddetin \u00fcrk\u00fct\u00fcc\u00fc boyutlara ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131na dikkati \u00e7ekerek, \u201cT\u00fcrkiye denilince \u2018kad\u0131na \u015fiddet uygulayan insanlar\u0131n \u00fclkesi\u2019 akla gelmeye ba\u015flad\u0131.\u201c dedi ve kad\u0131na y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddet ve cinayetlerin giderek artmas\u0131n\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck nedeninin \u2018e\u011fitimsizlik\u2019 oldu\u011funu vurgulad\u0131. <\/p>\n
\u201cBu \u00dclkenin B\u00fct\u00fcn Bireyleri Bu K\u00f6t\u00fc Tablodan Sorumludur\u2026\u201d
\n\u201c2016 T\u00fcrkiye\u2019sinde e\u011fer hala kad\u0131na y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddetten bahsediliyorsa, \u015fiddeti \u00f6nlemek i\u00e7in yeterince \u00f6nlemler al\u0131nam\u0131yorsa, \u015fiddetin boyutu \u00f6l\u00fcme kadar gidiyorsa, sadece devletin ilgili kurumlar\u0131 de\u011fil, bu \u00fclkenin b\u00fct\u00fcn bireyleri bu k\u00f6t\u00fc tablodan sorumludur.\u201d diyen Terapist Dr. Obeng\u00fcl Ejder, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klamada kad\u0131na y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddetin nerede ve nas\u0131l patlama yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u015fiddetin psikolojisi ve \u015fiddetten ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z bir toplum i\u00e7in ebeveynlere d\u00fc\u015fen rolleri \u015f\u00f6yle anlatt\u0131\u2026
\n\u201cKad\u0131nlar erkek egemen toplumlarda daha s\u0131k \u015fiddete maruz kal\u0131yor. Ayn\u0131 zamanda toplumun hukuksal, ekonomik, geleneksel, siyasal ve e\u011fitimsel yap\u0131s\u0131 i\u00e7inde kad\u0131n ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131\u011fa u\u011fruyor ve erke\u011fe ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 olmak zorunda kal\u0131yor. Erke\u011fin yasalardan ve ataerkil geleneklerden kaynaklanan \u00fcst\u00fcn konumu, kad\u0131n\u0131n erke\u011fe hizmet etmesi ve erke\u011fin al\u0131nacak kararlarda s\u00f6z sahibi olmas\u0131n\u0131 \u2018do\u011fal\u2019 g\u00f6ren bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131na sahip olmas\u0131 da maalesef \u015fiddeti besliyor.\u201d<\/p>\n
Duygusal ya da Fiziksel \u0130stismara U\u011fram\u0131\u015f Erkek, Daha Fazla \u015eiddet E\u011filiminde
\nKendileri de duygusal ya da fiziksel istismara u\u011fram\u0131\u015f, anne ya da karde\u015fleri de \u015fiddet g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f ki\u015filerin daha fazla \u015fiddet e\u011filiminde oldu\u011funu kaydeden Aile ve evlilik Terapisti Dr. Obeng\u00fcl Ejder, \u201cK\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckken terk edilmi\u015f, ebeveynlerini kaybetmi\u015f ya da ailelerinden zorla uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f; \u015fizofreni, antisosyal ki\u015filik bozuklu\u011fu gibi psikiyatrik tan\u0131 alm\u0131\u015f erkeklerin \u015fiddet e\u011filimlerinin daha fazla oldu\u011funu g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz.\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
\u201c\u00c7ocuktan Gelin Olmaz\u2026\u201d
\nDr. Obeng\u00fcl Ejder a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131nda son olarak, giderek yayg\u0131nla\u015fan \u00e7ocuk ya\u015ftaki evliliklere de de\u011findi. T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n \u015fiddetle ilk ailelerinde tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131, anne ya da babalar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan g\u00fc\u00e7 kullan\u0131larak bast\u0131r\u0131lmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 ifade eden Dr. Ejder, evlendirilen \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n T\u00fcrkiye\u2019nin kanayan yaras\u0131 oldu\u011funu vurgulad\u0131. Dr. Ejder, “\u00c7ocuktan doktor, m\u00fchendis, avukat, \u00f6\u011fretmen, mimar ve sanat\u00e7\u0131 olur; ama asla gelin olmaz, olmamal\u0131.” \u015feklinde konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n
T\u00fcrk Kad\u0131n\u0131na Se\u00e7me ve Se\u00e7ilme Hakk\u0131n\u0131n Verili\u015finin 82. Y\u0131ld\u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fc
\nKad\u0131nlar\u0131n halen yasal zeminde haklar\u0131n\u0131 bilmedi\u011fini de vurgulayan Dr. Ejder, \u201c82 y\u0131l \u00f6nce Ulu \u00d6nder Atat\u00fcrk taraf\u0131ndan \u00fclkemizin gelece\u011finde s\u00f6z sahibi olmam\u0131za olanak tan\u0131yan yasal d\u00fczenlemeler yap\u0131larak, hukuksal anlamda T\u00fcrk Kad\u0131n\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7lendirildi. Ancak gelinin noktada g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz ki, kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z halen bu g\u00fc\u00e7lerinin fark\u0131nda de\u011fil. T\u00fcm \u00e7evrelerin el birli\u011fiyle yapaca\u011f\u0131 fark\u0131ndal\u0131k \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131, kad\u0131na y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddetin \u00f6nlenmesine b\u00fcy\u00fck katk\u0131 sunaca\u011f\u0131na inan\u0131yorum.\u201d \u015feklinde konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
5 Aral\u0131k D\u00fcnya Kad\u0131nlar Haklar\u0131 G\u00fcn\u00fc nedeniyle a\u00e7\u0131klama yapan Dr. Obeng\u00fcl Ejder, T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de kad\u0131na y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddetin \u00fcrk\u00fct\u00fcc\u00fc boyutlara ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131na dikkati \u00e7ekerek, \u201cT\u00fcrkiye denilince \u2018kad\u0131na \u015fiddet uygulayan insanlar\u0131n \u00fclkesi\u2019 akla gelmeye ba\u015flad\u0131.\u201c dedi ve kad\u0131na y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddet ve cinayetlerin giderek artmas\u0131n\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck nedeninin \u2018e\u011fitimsizlik\u2019 oldu\u011funu vurgulad\u0131. \u201cBu \u00dclkenin B\u00fct\u00fcn Bireyleri Bu K\u00f6t\u00fc Tablodan Sorumludur\u2026\u201d \u201c2016 …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":822,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[2922,2903,2003],"class_list":["post-821","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-yasam","tag-kadina","tag-siddet","tag-yonelik"],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/821","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=821"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/821\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/822"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=821"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=821"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adanaseshaber.com.tr\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=821"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}